Not supporting same sex marriage does NOT make someone a bigot.

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#801 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="delta3074"]i don't sse that the christain church denying gay marriage is Bigotry at all, it's a fundemental part oof there religeous beliefs, however, forcing christian churches to go against there religeon and marry gay pople is bigotry of the highest order, Christian beliefs should be protected just as much as gay peoples beliefs, i ahve no problem with Gays getting married but the christian church should not be forced or coerced in any way to perform those marriages.delta3074

Who is saying churches should be forced to perform same sex marriage ceromonies? There are however many religious people such as Op saying gays shouldn't be allowed to marry even if their church supports it.

so calling christians bigots for standing by there beliefs is acceptable then?

I imagine that would make him a bigot as well.....who said people couldn't find a common ground.
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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="delta3074"]i don't sse that the christain church denying gay marriage is Bigotry at all, it's a fundemental part oof there religeous beliefs, however, forcing christian churches to go against there religeon and marry gay pople is bigotry of the highest order, Christian beliefs should be protected just as much as gay peoples beliefs, i ahve no problem with Gays getting married but the christian church should not be forced or coerced in any way to perform those marriages.delta3074

Who is saying churches should be forced to perform same sex marriage ceromonies? There are however many religious people such as Op saying gays shouldn't be allowed to marry even if their church supports it.

so calling christians bigots for standing by there beliefs is acceptable then?

If their beliefs are bigoted then yes. I don't see why slapping the word "religion" on an idea makes it any more acceptable. Do you think racism is bad? If I were to say racism is part of my religion would that make you change your mind? of course not. Deny people equal rights is bad.

Also why didn't you respond to my post? Who is forcing churches to perform same sex ceromonies?

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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"][QUOTE="DevilMightCry"] I feel the same way, except I've never been called a bigot in real life by my gay friends. .

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What? It's true. My best friend is gay and I worked for a gay business owner. I openely told him what I think, and he was the coolest guy about it. It's not like I don't want them living together, and not being able to be with the ones they love. In life you can disagree on issues and still carry on a conversation without being called names. It's not like I want gays not to have the same benefits or not being able to live and be with the person they love. I don't believe in polygammy either, does that make me a bigot against multiple spouses? I frankly don't care if I am called a bigot or not. I know what is right for me, and I stick by it.
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[QUOTE="delta3074"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]Who is saying churches should be forced to perform same sex marriage ceromonies? There are however many religious people such as Op saying gays shouldn't be allowed to marry even if their church supports it.

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so calling christians bigots for standing by there beliefs is acceptable then?

If their beliefs are bigoted then yes. I don't see why slapping the word "religion" on an idea makes it any more acceptable. Do you think racism is bad? If I were to say racism is part of my religion would that make you change your mind? of course not. Deny people equal rights is bad.

Also why didn't you respond to my post? Who is forcing churches to perform same sex ceromonies?

have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.
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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="delta3074"]so calling christians bigots for standing by there beliefs is acceptable then?delta3074

If their beliefs are bigoted then yes. I don't see why slapping the word "religion" on an idea makes it any more acceptable. Do you think racism is bad? If I were to say racism is part of my religion would that make you change your mind? of course not. Deny people equal rights is bad.

Also why didn't you respond to my post? Who is forcing churches to perform same sex ceromonies?

have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.

Because they can't accept the ideas of others (ie the ideas of the Church of England)....which makes them (activists).....wait for it....bigots.
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[QUOTE="delta3074"]i am sick of this BS as well, i am a christian so i believe that marriage should be between a man and a women, Telling anyone who doesn't should support Gay marriage a Bigot is Religeous disscrimination as far as i am concerned, people who houd christians to support Gay marriage and go against there own personally held beliefs is bigotry of the highest order.delta3074

Marriage has nothing to do with religion. It is a function of the state. As such it should be avalible to all members of our society, regardless of their race, creed, political views, gender or sexuality. When you seek to deny people certain rights simply because of what they are then, yes, you are a bigot.

i don't sse that the christain church denying gay marriage is Bigotry at all, it's a fundemental part oof there religeous beliefs, however, forcing christian churches to go against there religeon and marry gay pople is bigotry of the highest order, Christian beliefs should be protected just as much as gay peoples beliefs, i ahve no problem with Gays getting married but the christian church should not be forced or coerced in any way to perform those marriages.

Nobody is advocating that any church or religious body be forced to marry anyone. As it is now churches aren't required to even marry heterosexual couples. There are, however, many religious people, particularly Christians (but evidentally some Jews as well, as the TC shows) who do wish to deny gays the right to marry (meaning secular, state-issued marriage, not the religious holy matrimony ceremonies) because of their beliefs. If you are not one of these folks then fair enough, I have no issue with you.

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[QUOTE="delta3074"]so calling christians bigots for standing by there beliefs is acceptable then?delta3074

If their beliefs are bigoted then yes. I don't see why slapping the word "religion" on an idea makes it any more acceptable. Do you think racism is bad? If I were to say racism is part of my religion would that make you change your mind? of course not. Deny people equal rights is bad.

Also why didn't you respond to my post? Who is forcing churches to perform same sex ceromonies?

have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.

Have you even read the same sex marriage bill? It clearly says no church will be forced to take part.

http://www.publications.parliament.uk/pa/bills/cbill/2012-2013/0126/cbill_2012-20130126_en_1.htm

What reason do you have to oppose that bill being passed?

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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="delta3074"]so calling christians bigots for standing by there beliefs is acceptable then?delta3074

If their beliefs are bigoted then yes. I don't see why slapping the word "religion" on an idea makes it any more acceptable. Do you think racism is bad? If I were to say racism is part of my religion would that make you change your mind? of course not. Deny people equal rights is bad.

Also why didn't you respond to my post? Who is forcing churches to perform same sex ceromonies?

have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.

Well if the Church of England would seperate itself from the state then it might be a different story.

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[QUOTE="delta3074"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]If their beliefs are bigoted then yes. I don't see why slapping the word "religion" on an idea makes it any more acceptable. Do you think racism is bad? If I were to say racism is part of my religion would that make you change your mind? of course not. Deny people equal rights is bad.

Also why didn't you respond to my post? Who is forcing churches to perform same sex ceromonies?

worlock77

have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.

Well if the Church of England would seperate itself from the state then it might be a different story.

Eh......one can get married in England without the use of the Church of England so I don't see how that makes a difference.
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Religious people who want to ban gay marriage in all forms (either performed in church or court) because of religious beliefs are bigoted. That said, churches should have the right to decide if they want to perform the marriage
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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="delta3074"]have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.LJS9502_basic

Well if the Church of England would seperate itself from the state then it might be a different story.

Eh......one can get married in England without the use of the Church of England so I don't see how that makes a difference.

Unfortunatly the church of England is trying to prevent that.

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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="worlock77"]

Well if the Church of England would seperate itself from the state then it might be a different story.

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Eh......one can get married in England without the use of the Church of England so I don't see how that makes a difference.

Unfortunatly the church of England is trying to prevent that.

That part they should avoid.....but then you guys don't have separation of church and state I expect.
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[QUOTE="spiderluck"][QUOTE="toast_burner"]You're complaining about religious discrimination but your forcing your religious views on everyone else. Why does it matter to you if a gay couple get married in a secular ceremony? Or if they get married by their own religion that does support same sex marriage?delta3074
Generally speaking it threatens their world view..And using religion as an escape hatch is the oldest ruse in the book...I hate how Christians pick and choose what to or not to believe...Stoning adulterers..nah...even though the bible says we should...Barely disguise our hatred for Homos..sure why not...the bible says i should

do you all misread what i am saying? i don't hate Homosexuals i just think that christians are just as entitled to there opinion as gay people, i have a few gay friends who actually respect my opinion and they are sick of the way the church is being hounded to conduct gay marriage, you cannot trample on one peoples rights just to push another persons rights.

No pal you are the one misunderstanding ....Your refusal to accept gay marriage" stems from learnt behavior or group thinking which you think lends credence to your viewpoint...And yes you are definitely entitled to your opinion as is everyone but if you look at the real reason for your belief you will surely see that it originates from a place of moral superiorty which by definition renders those of contrary belief " inferior"....If a group for any reason cannot accept all within it, then it is an exclusionary club ,reserved for the elite...This in itself is not so bad, but when such club acts as if this is God"s will then there is a real problem...Because everything becomes acceptable in the name of God, and reason and common sense, equality and justice become red headed stepchildren in the name of God
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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Eh......one can get married in England without the use of the Church of England so I don't see how that makes a difference. LJS9502_basic

Unfortunatly the church of England is trying to prevent that.

That part they should avoid.....but then you guys don't have separation of church and state I expect.

Wikipedia has us listed as ambiguous :P

The Queen is the head of the church but neither she or the church have any real power. They only have influence.

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[QUOTE="worlock77"]

[QUOTE="delta3074"]have you seen what it's like over here? gay activity groups are putting a HUGE amount of pressure on the church of england to conduct same sex marriages, it's tearing the church of england apart dude.LJS9502_basic

Well if the Church of England would seperate itself from the state then it might be a different story.

Eh......one can get married in England without the use of the Church of England so I don't see how that makes a difference.

They can, but the fact that the Church of England is the state church does create issues from time to time. That's what's going on now. The Church of England is fighting gay marriage because they fear it would undermine their positition as the state church.

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[QUOTE="spiderluck"][QUOTE="delta3074"][QUOTE="spiderluck"] Generally speaking it threatens their world view..And using religion as an escape hatch is the oldest ruse in the book...I hate how Christians pick and choose what to or not to believe...Stoning adulterers..nah...even though the bible says we should...Barely disguise our hatred for Homos..sure why not...the bible says i should

do you all misread what i am saying? i don't hate Homosexuals i just think that christians are just as entitled to there opinion as gay people, i have a few gay friends who actually respect my opinion and they are sick of the way the church is being hounded to conduct gay marriage, you cannot trample on one peoples rights just to push another persons rights.

No pal you are the one misunderstanding ....Your refusal to accept gay marriage" stems from learnt behavior or group thinking which you think lends credence to your viewpoint...And yes you are definitely entitled to your opinion as is everyone but if you look at the real reason for your belief you will surely see that it originates from a place of moral superiorty which by definition renders those of contrary belief " inferior"....If a group for any reason cannot accept all within it, then it is an exclusionary club ,reserved for the elite...This in itself is not so bad, but when such club acts as if this is God"s will then there is a real problem...Because everything becomes acceptable in the name of God, and reason and common sense, equality and justice become red headed stepchildren in the name of God

It's disingenuous to blame religion solely for anti gay stances....I've met many a non religious person that is anti gay marriage/anti gay and many religious that aren't. It's rather simplistic and ignorant to decide one factor and one factor ONLY is the reason or that those that aren't religious are all more accepting. That's just not true. And I'd imagine the biggest factor is culture.
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[QUOTE="spiderluck"][QUOTE="delta3074"]do you all misread what i am saying? i don't hate Homosexuals i just think that christians are just as entitled to there opinion as gay people, i have a few gay friends who actually respect my opinion and they are sick of the way the church is being hounded to conduct gay marriage, you cannot trample on one peoples rights just to push another persons rights.LJS9502_basic
No pal you are the one misunderstanding ....Your refusal to accept gay marriage" stems from learnt behavior or group thinking which you think lends credence to your viewpoint...And yes you are definitely entitled to your opinion as is everyone but if you look at the real reason for your belief you will surely see that it originates from a place of moral superiorty which by definition renders those of contrary belief " inferior"....If a group for any reason cannot accept all within it, then it is an exclusionary club ,reserved for the elite...This in itself is not so bad, but when such club acts as if this is God"s will then there is a real problem...Because everything becomes acceptable in the name of God, and reason and common sense, equality and justice become red headed stepchildren in the name of God

It's disingenuous to blame religion solely for anti gay stances....I've met many a non religious person that is anti gay marriage/anti gay and many religious that aren't. It's rather simplistic and ignorant to decide one factor and one factor ONLY is the reason or that those that aren't religious are all more accepting. That's just not true. And I'd imagine the biggest factor is culture.

Absolutely true ...I was merely refuting the argument of Christians using their beliefs for justifying an exclusionary mentality....Though it makes me wonder when they claim to have gay friends who understand their position...I suspect that rather than having gay friends they know gay people who are friendly to them ...BIG DIFFERENCE...You could be friendly with someone who refuses you the same basic rights as they enjoy but i strongly doubt you could be genuine friends with them
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Can't say I disagree

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[QUOTE="spiderluck"][QUOTE="delta3074"]do you all misread what i am saying? i don't hate Homosexuals i just think that christians are just as entitled to there opinion as gay people, i have a few gay friends who actually respect my opinion and they are sick of the way the church is being hounded to conduct gay marriage, you cannot trample on one peoples rights just to push another persons rights.LJS9502_basic
No pal you are the one misunderstanding ....Your refusal to accept gay marriage" stems from learnt behavior or group thinking which you think lends credence to your viewpoint...And yes you are definitely entitled to your opinion as is everyone but if you look at the real reason for your belief you will surely see that it originates from a place of moral superiorty which by definition renders those of contrary belief " inferior"....If a group for any reason cannot accept all within it, then it is an exclusionary club ,reserved for the elite...This in itself is not so bad, but when such club acts as if this is God"s will then there is a real problem...Because everything becomes acceptable in the name of God, and reason and common sense, equality and justice become red headed stepchildren in the name of God

It's disingenuous to blame religion solely for anti gay stances....I've met many a non religious person that is anti gay marriage/anti gay and many religious that aren't. It's rather simplistic and ignorant to decide one factor and one factor ONLY is the reason or that those that aren't religious are all more accepting. That's just not true. And I'd imagine the biggest factor is culture.

That's is true. My mom is non-religious, but my **** island is highly religious. She was brought up to believe that the bible is a fact, so she still believs that gay marriage is wrong against god. I love how she has to wake up to a bisexual son. It's lovely.

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Religious people who want to ban gay marriage in all forms (either performed in church or court) because of religious beliefs are bigoted. That said, churches should have the right to decide if they want to perform the marriageRing_of_fire
I think this is the most logical solution.
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"]Religious people who want to ban gay marriage in all forms (either performed in church or court) because of religious beliefs are bigoted. That said, churches should have the right to decide if they want to perform the marriagelayton2012
I think this is the most logical solution.

Unfortunately, the social conservatives think they should force everyone to follow their views.
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[QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"]Religious people who want to ban gay marriage in all forms (either performed in church or court) because of religious beliefs are bigoted. That said, churches should have the right to decide if they want to perform the marriageRing_of_fire
I think this is the most logical solution.

Unfortunately, the social conservatives think they should force everyone to follow their views.

I mean all we really want is the legal benefits that straight marriages have, I don't even want a ceremony.
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[QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"] I think this is the most logical solution.

Unfortunately, the social conservatives think they should force everyone to follow their views.

I mean all we really want is the legal benefits that straight marriages have, I don't even want a ceremony.

and have the right give up all their special rights to marriage? Aren't we asking them too much for the sake of equal rights?
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[QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] Unfortunately, the social conservatives think they should force everyone to follow their views.Ring_of_fire
I mean all we really want is the legal benefits that straight marriages have, I don't even want a ceremony.

and have the right give up all their special rights to marriage? Aren't we asking them too much for the sake of equal rights?

What's next people having different religions than me? Don't they know that only i can take joy in thinking I'm part of Gods chosen?!

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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] Unfortunately, the social conservatives think they should force everyone to follow their views.

I mean all we really want is the legal benefits that straight marriages have, I don't even want a ceremony.

and have the right give up all their special rights to marriage? Aren't we asking them too much for the sake of equal rights?

I don't think so, but I'm biased.
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[QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"] I mean all we really want is the legal benefits that straight marriages have, I don't even want a ceremony.

and have the right give up all their special rights to marriage? Aren't we asking them too much for the sake of equal rights?

I don't think so, but I'm biased.

Not a serious question :P Trying to play at one of the rights arguments that gay marriage would give LGBT+more letters community "special rights".
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] and have the right give up all their special rights to marriage? Aren't we asking them too much for the sake of equal rights?

I don't think so, but I'm biased.

Not a serious question :P Trying to play at one of the rights arguments that gay marriage would give LGBT+more letters community "special rights".

Their not special rights if everyone would have them, and I just realized I am terrible at catching sarcasm on the Internet.
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Also shadowmoses, you need to get off your high horse. People hate you on here, and it's not because you have unpopular views; it's the way you present them.

Example; I see you on system wars all the time saying things like "the best console the gen was the one you had the most fun with' or "there is no definative winner. Then go on the make nintendo/PC/360 suck threads.

You do the same thing on here. You act like you're above all that bigotry nonsense then say something ignorant or bigotist then act like your views are somehow immune to criticism and that people that disagree with you are immuture or bigotist themselves.

Your argument is basically that it's ignorant to hate 'hate groups' and that's rediculous, I hate the KKK, the nazis, the black panthers, and everybody with a brain knows those groups have no validity, yet you attack us when we say they're terrible. You're the guy that says "I have a latino freind, I'm not racist" then go onto rant about how mexicans are lazy. No, thinking you're better than everybody else does not make you immune to criticism or being ignorant or bigotist.

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[QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"] I don't think so, but I'm biased.

Not a serious question :P Trying to play at one of the rights arguments that gay marriage would give LGBT+more letters community "special rights".

Their not special rights if everyone would have them, and I just realized I am terrible at catching sarcasm on the Internet.

I know they aren't special rights :P Well, the right wants special rights by banning gay marriage
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#831 LJS9502_basic
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Also shadowmoses, you need to get off your high horse. People hate you on here, MakeMeaSammitch
I know you think that's a bad thing....but I can't see that is. Is it really important to you to follow the group think and be "liked" on a forum rather than being yourself and having people that like as well as dislike you? In addition to those that are apathetic to you? Just seems so silly to push popularity as a plus.

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#832 MakeMeaSammitch
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[QUOTE="MakeMeaSammitch"]Also shadowmoses, you need to get off your high horse. People hate you on here, LJS9502_basic
I know you think that is an insult....but I can't see that is.

it's not meant to be, i'm just telling him how it is and why.

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#833 layton2012
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] Not a serious question :P Trying to play at one of the rights arguments that gay marriage would give LGBT+more letters community "special rights".

Their not special rights if everyone would have them, and I just realized I am terrible at catching sarcasm on the Internet.

I know they aren't special rights :P Well, the right wants special rights by banning gay marriage

Yes, and they accuse of wanting special rights by saying some BS, saying we do have equal rights " we can't marry a member of the same sex either."
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#834 Ring_of_fire
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[QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"] Their not special rights if everyone would have them, and I just realized I am terrible at catching sarcasm on the Internet.

I know they aren't special rights :P Well, the right wants special rights by banning gay marriage

Yes, and they accuse of wanting special rights by saying some BS, saying we do have equal rights " we can't marry a member of the same sex either."

Which is strange, as there would be nothing stating that heterosexuals can't marry people of the same sex. Not sure why the would want to, but it would still be open to them.
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#835 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] I know they aren't special rights :P Well, the right wants special rights by banning gay marriage

Yes, and they accuse of wanting special rights by saying some BS, saying we do have equal rights " we can't marry a member of the same sex either."

Which is strange, as there would be nothing stating that heterosexuals can't marry people of the same sex. Not sure why the would want to, but it would still be open to them.

I keep telling you....marriage isn't heaven. Though I have no objection to anyone wanting to be in hell. Certainly gay couples should be able to be considered family for medical purposes.
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#836 Ring_of_fire
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="layton2012"] Yes, and they accuse of wanting special rights by saying some BS, saying we do have equal rights " we can't marry a member of the same sex either."

Which is strange, as there would be nothing stating that heterosexuals can't marry people of the same sex. Not sure why the would want to, but it would still be open to them.

I keep telling you....marriage isn't heaven. Though I have no objection to anyone wanting to be in hell. Certainly gay couples should be able to be considered family for medical purposes.

Show me where I claimed it was heaven :P (unless you're trying to save us from ourselves :P)
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#837 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] Which is strange, as there would be nothing stating that heterosexuals can't marry people of the same sex. Not sure why the would want to, but it would still be open to them.

I keep telling you....marriage isn't heaven. Though I have no objection to anyone wanting to be in hell. Certainly gay couples should be able to be considered family for medical purposes.

Show me where I claimed it was heaven :P (unless you're trying to save us from ourselves :P)

LOL I think it should pass just so gay couples can deal with misery and divorce lawyers as well.:P
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#838 Ring_of_fire
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[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"] I keep telling you....marriage isn't heaven. Though I have no objection to anyone wanting to be in hell. Certainly gay couples should be able to be considered family for medical purposes.

Show me where I claimed it was heaven :P (unless you're trying to save us from ourselves :P)

LOL I think it should pass just so gay couples can deal with misery and divorce lawyers as well.:P

Unless the right wants to fight for the sanctity of divorce :P
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#839 layton2012
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[QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"][QUOTE="Ring_of_fire"] Show me where I claimed it was heaven :P (unless you're trying to save us from ourselves :P)

LOL I think it should pass just so gay couples can deal with misery and divorce lawyers as well.:P

Unless the right wants to fight for the sanctity of divorce :P

Now they want to take our divorces too, the insanity! :/
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#840 JustPlainLucas
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A bigot is someone who lets his hate or dislike of a race/color/creed/sexual orientation disassociate himself from members of that type. A bigot is a hateful word, and not every person who opposes gay marriage is a hateful person. Not everyone needs to believe the same way you do, and to call people who don't names makes you more of a bigot (hate-filled person) than someone who just doesn't agree with same sex marriage. The term "bigot" is being thrown around too much, and it needs to stop.
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A bigot is someone who lets his hate or dislike of a race/color/creed/sexual orientation disassociate himself from members of that type. A bigot is a hateful word, and not every person who opposes gay marriage is a hateful person. Not everyone needs to believe the same way you do, and to call people who don't names makes you more of a bigot (hate-filled person) than someone who just doesn't agree with same sex marriage. The term "bigot" is being thrown around too much, and it needs to stop.JustPlainLucas

"I don't hate gay people, I just don't think they should have the same rights that I have" - how is that not bigoted?

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#842 Yusuke420
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"I don't hate blacks, I just don't want to sit next to them or for them to vote":roll: bigots...

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#843 LJS9502_basic
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"I don't hate blacks, I just don't want to sit next to them or for them to vote":roll: bigots...

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Silly analogy. Why must race be brought into everything?
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#844 layton2012
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A bigot is someone who lets his hate or dislike of a race/color/creed/sexual orientation disassociate himself from members of that type. A bigot is a hateful word, and not every person who opposes gay marriage is a hateful person. Not everyone needs to believe the same way you do, and to call people who don't names makes you more of a bigot (hate-filled person) than someone who just doesn't agree with same sex marriage. The term "bigot" is being thrown around too much, and it needs to stop.JustPlainLucas
It does not make you bigoted for not believing in same sex marriage, it does make you bigot for wanting same sex marriage to be illegal even though it has nothing to do with you and does not affect you in anyway.
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#845 ShadowMoses900
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"I don't hate blacks, I just don't want to sit next to them or for them to vote":roll: bigots...

Yusuke420

For the love of God no one is even suggesting such a thing....seriously you guys are so "out there" with things that it's hard to take you seriosly. You guys act like some kind of fringe community or something.

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#846 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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A bigot is someone who lets his hate or dislike of a race/color/creed/sexual orientation disassociate himself from members of that type. A bigot is a hateful word, and not every person who opposes gay marriage is a hateful person. Not everyone needs to believe the same way you do, and to call people who don't names makes you more of a bigot (hate-filled person) than someone who just doesn't agree with same sex marriage. The term "bigot" is being thrown around too much, and it needs to stop.JustPlainLucas
This post is neither compelling nor anything that hasn't been parroted an infinite amounts before in this thread. There's no difference between being a bigot and supporting bigoted positions. End of story

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#847 Yusuke420
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[QUOTE="Yusuke420"]

"I don't hate blacks, I just don't want to sit next to them or for them to vote":roll: bigots...

LJS9502_basic

Silly analogy. Why must race be brought into everything?

It's the same thing, you can not say in the same breath that you take marriage seriously, but it's okay for gay people to be denied that right. If it's not a big deal then there wouldn't be any fuss, but if marriage is such an important institution, then no one should be denied because of their sexual orientation.

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#848 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="JustPlainLucas"]A bigot is someone who lets his hate or dislike of a race/color/creed/sexual orientation disassociate himself from members of that type. A bigot is a hateful word, and not every person who opposes gay marriage is a hateful person. Not everyone needs to believe the same way you do, and to call people who don't names makes you more of a bigot (hate-filled person) than someone who just doesn't agree with same sex marriage. The term "bigot" is being thrown around too much, and it needs to stop.layton2012
It does not make you bigoted for not believing in same sex marriage, it does make you bigot for wanting same sex marriage to be illegal even though it has nothing to do with you and does not affect you in anyway.

I'm not sure you mean to use the word bigot there. Bigotry.....Bigotry is the state of mind of a bigot, defined by Merriam-Webster as "a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; especially: one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance"./quote A person can believe gay marriage is wrong without being a bigot...ie they don't march on DC and try to sway opinion, nor do they hate gay people or act intolerant of them. It's a fine line between bigotry and allowing for other opinions we don't agree with.
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#849 MakeMeaSammitch
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A bigot is someone who lets his hate or dislike of a race/color/creed/sexual orientation disassociate himself from members of that type. A bigot is a hateful word, and not every person who opposes gay marriage is a hateful person. Not everyone needs to believe the same way you do, and to call people who don't names makes you more of a bigot (hate-filled person) than someone who just doesn't agree with same sex marriage. The term "bigot" is being thrown around too much, and it needs to stop.JustPlainLucas
What else could it be then? Opposing a group, who's condition is genetically based, getting equal rights?

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#850 Ring_of_fire
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@Shadow Moses, asked this before, don't believe I got an answer from you. If I said "I disagree with the Jewish lifestyle", would you label me an anti-Semite/you?