[QUOTE="Hi_Again"][QUOTE="Luncbox1"]My big problem with them: my dad is dead because of them.MrGeezer
See that Mr. Geezer? Not only do cigarettes relieve your own stress, they relieve your family members of stress too! Whatever, dude. My dad is probably gonna be dead within the next ten years too. And if it's not as a result of smoking, it's gonna be as a result of something else.
PEOPLE DIE.
Oh yeah, I hate tobacco because they made me see my dad die. I am SUPPOSED to see my dad die. I am SUPPOSED to attend my dad's funeral. My dad is NOT supposed to attend MY funeral. Yes, it will be SAD when I bury my dad, but he was ALWAYS gonna die. And unless something were to go horribly wrong, it is ALWAYS the father who is supposed to get buried by the son. Whether he dies because of tobacco, lack of exercise, diabetes, too much great-tasting food, etc is of no concern to me. My only concern is that he led the life that he wanted. That's it. Some of you guys might differ in opinion, but I think I'd find it a little bit morally reprehensible to use my father's death as a tool to launch a personal agenda against something that I don't like. My father will NEVER be a "victim" of alcohol or tobacco. He's done both, and more. Some of thse things he has quit, some of them he hasn't. But at every step of the way, that was HIS CHOICE. That was how HE chose to live. And I'd have to be a pretty big dirtbag to pick apart my father's life in order to blame my being fatherless on something that I don't like.
Now, my perspective doesn't have anything to do with anyone else's, but that's where I stand. No one forced alcohol or tobacco on him. Using those substances was HIS decision. And if either of those things helped to make him feel just a little bit better before he died, then my opinion is that I shoulkd simply grow a pair and realize that that was how HE chose to die.
his choice? your dad would of started smoking when people still believed that it's ok. Save your post and then re-read it when he's gone - you haven't been their yet. don't think you know what it's like.
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