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#301 kalparun
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] Using his own logic he has a choice to cut it off. So why would he not choose to be male since that is the gender that gets the most respect and is not treated inferior? Dang the self-ownage with him.

First, not a he. I don't identify as male, never have. Regarding me as male and treating me as male is highly offensive and demeaning. I didn't choose to seek the sex realignment surgery, I had no choice. It was either face years of misery, depression and likely suicide from pretending to be a male or accept the risks and dangers of hormone therapy and surgery and work towards finally being happy with my body. It was a no brainer which of the two to go with, living a lie is not a life at all.

you were not pretending to be male you were MALE and you had a mental condition offensive or not, I am telling the truth, that makes you want to be female because there's a mental conflict with your brain and certain other objects inside you. In your case it's no choice. homosexuality and your issue are two separate things. you are a guy and when people look up your records for checking your background for clearance, for identity theft, or if you commit a crime, you are a He, and it will be brought up at some point again whether you like it or not unless you live in a lower world country, in which I don't think you would have been able to get the surgery. So yes you are a He.

leave the guy be bro
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#302 Teenaged
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what you go forward with a what you avoid can have an effect

Also it's not natural "physically" to be gay since there is not one part in gay "intercourse" that does could not have some possible consequence at some timePresidentKing

HUH?

TECHNICALLY gay people are not having sex.PresidentKing
lol

Crazy people...

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#303 PresidentKing
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"] Threads like these become a broken record. Sexuality is not a choice, it is defined from before we are born and kicks in when our mental development comes to terms with the feelings we have towards other adults, be they of the same sex or opposite. No one wakes up and decides what their sexuality will be, if they did then most people would choose to be the sexuality that won't get them attacked by hateful fools, that won't restrict their lives and won't result in them being likely disowned by family. All humans would choose to be heterosexual if sexuality was a choice, it would be less hassle and less stress since there would be no attacks on them for being the same as everyone else. But it isn't a choice, it never has been. While we can choose to try a particular food item and enjoy it or hate it, we can not choose who we fall in love with. Life is not so clear cut as that. Saying it's a choice shows a great deal of insecurity of oneself.

You are not born straight or Gay what your surroundings are and what mental choices YOU MAKE early determine what you end up being. You have no disproven that theory ONCE not ONCE. You just use a circular argument. You have not once shown how it was not a CHOICE. It's a CHOICE that can't be so easily changed after you make it yes but it is still a choice. Not to mention you are a complete failure with logic. You say they would choose the sexuality of the one they won't get attacked? Well black people could have been chosen to be white skinned for nearly 50 years now and they haven't done it so are black people just dumb by your logic or is your logic wrong /thread.

Sexuality is not a choice, how many times do I have to say that? How many times does such a simple fact have to be said before it is finally heard? Did you choose to be heterosexual? No, no one chooses and no one can. Maybe in some dim witted movie they can, but that's movies. In real life we do not choose our sexuality, we do not choose who we are as a person. What we experience in life can have an effect, like how we might be towards others when it comes to trust or the kind of foods we'll enjoy the most, how music can make us feel. But we can never choose our sexuality. There are those who are born with a different skin who wish they had been given the choice of skin colour, in the pre-equal rights era for those with different colour skin there were many who wished they had been born white skinned so that they weren't looked down on and treated poorly for not being white skinned. It is still common enough today for some who are born dark skinned since they feel that no matter how hard they try to prove themselves in the world, they still feel that they are regarded as less than dirt by white skinned men who haven't accepted the fact that a person's skin colour does not determine the person within. In life we never get any really important choices when it comes to how we are born, who we might love when we're older, our own unique personalities. I definitely didn't get a choice when I was being conceived back in the late 70s, I would have loved a list of options so that I could have chosen. I would have chosen: Sex: Female - instead of being born with a male body Gender: Female - which I already am, but in a male body Sexuality: Heterosexual - Instead of coming to terms with my being bi-sexual Interests: Science Fiction, Reading, Old Movies, Classical Music, Nature - thankfully those are things I'm interested in, video games were something I learned and Transformers were something I was introduced to Artistic Skills: Music, Drawing, Painting, Writing - all I got was writing. Dislikes: Narrow minds, alcohol, smoking, drugs, violence, war. Disinterest in: Sex. No such list appeared though, no such list appears for anyone. There are many things we have no choice in and sexuality is one of those things.

You are throwing transgender with homosexuality which has nothing to do with eachother because you have no other defense. It's a damn freaking choice. also you are not the female gender, do you know what gender is? no matter what you do you will always be a guy just like if I chop a potatoe it will still be a damn potatoe. Yes I choose to be heterosexual, what you going to do about it? sue me for not following your rules? I know people who were gayer than the gay you probably could think up and one managed to switch his primary attraction to woman and his male attractsion are fading he's having a hard time finding men he is attracted to. Why could that be magic? Are we in disneyland? Also balck people still do not have equal rights and blacks and womans have been able to make themselves look like the better treated option for many many years, by your own logic all blacks and women are stupid. you still have not provided a reason as to how gay is not a choice, so far all i got is magic. Also there are other errors here but you still haven't even caught up. i am waiting...
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#304 kalparun
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"]what you go forward with a what you avoid can have an effect

Also it's not natural "physically" to be gay since there is not one part in gay "intercourse" that does could not have some possible consequence at some timeTeenaged

HUH?

TECHNICALLY gay people are not having sex.PresidentKing
lol

Crazy people...

technically str8 sex with rubber isn't sex either seems.

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#305 PresidentKing
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"]what you go forward with a what you avoid can have an effect

Also it's not natural "physically" to be gay since there is not one part in gay "intercourse" that does could not have some possible consequence at some timeTeenaged

HUH?

TECHNICALLY gay people are not having sex.PresidentKing
lol

Crazy people...

Don;t know what Sex is I see. Also how is it natural to shove a penile down an anal shute? Yeah, it's not, so it's not physically natural to be gay lol. wow.
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Don;t know what Sex is I see.PresidentKing
I do.

Its when mommy and daddy hug each other very tight with love.

Right?

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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] Using his own logic he has a choice to cut it off. So why would he not choose to be male since that is the gender that gets the most respect and is not treated inferior? Dang the self-ownage with him.

First, not a he. I don't identify as male, never have. Regarding me as male and treating me as male is highly offensive and demeaning. I didn't choose to seek the sex realignment surgery, I had no choice. It was either face years of misery, depression and likely suicide from pretending to be a male or accept the risks and dangers of hormone therapy and surgery and work towards finally being happy with my body. It was a no brainer which of the two to go with, living a lie is not a life at all.

you were not pretending to be male you were MALE and you had a mental condition offensive or not, I am telling the truth, that makes you want to be female because there's a mental conflict with your brain and certain other objects inside you. In your case it's no choice. homosexuality and your issue are two separate things. you are a guy and when people look up your records for checking your background for clearance, for identity theft, or if you commit a crime, you are a He, and it will be brought up at some point again whether you like it or not unless you live in a lower world country, in which I don't think you would have been able to get the surgery. So yes you are a He.

I was pretending to be a male because I was terrified and scared of how I would be treated by not only my family, but by others. Humans are so obsessed with only regarding a person by what they see on the outside that they don't consider the person within, like with all the hate towards homosexuals. People see only the outside and demand them to conform to very narrow notions of how to live, but they don't consider that the person within does not conform nor fit with such a narrow demand of conformity. I am not a male, my body is, but I'm not. I have never identified as male and never will. I have always identified as female and one day, when the surgery is done, I will finally be allow to legally change all my records to match that. As it is for now I am allowed to use my female name but I have to explain that I am tagged as trans-gender and currently in the process of the transition as required. I use my female name often, from paying bills to making online orders as well as how I identify to others, that is required of me as part of the transition. The old male persona I used in the past when I hid myself out of fear and confusion was destroyed several years, as required. I live in Scotland, I had my first therapy appointment last week and I show all the signs of gender dysphoria - meaning that my gender identity and self determination is not the same as my physical body. My gender is female, my physical sex is male. Since I show all the signs of gender dysphoria then I have a high chance of being approved for the hormone treatments, hopefully next year, and the sex realignment surgery. I'm female, simple as that. I was just born with a physical birth defect that can be remedied as best as medically and physically possible. I'll be sterile after the surgery but I accepted that fact years ago. I didn't have a choice in how I was born and I didn't have a choice in accepting myself, just as no one has the choice when it comes to their sexuality.
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#308 kalparun
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"]Don;t know what Sex is I see.Teenaged

I do.

Its when mommy and daddy hug each other very tight with love.

Right?

No, it's later when the lights go off and the doors get locked.
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#310 ghoklebutter
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Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.
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#311 Smokescreened84
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] You are not born straight or Gay what your surroundings are and what mental choices YOU MAKE early determine what you end up being. You have no disproven that theory ONCE not ONCE. You just use a circular argument. You have not once shown how it was not a CHOICE. It's a CHOICE that can't be so easily changed after you make it yes but it is still a choice. Not to mention you are a complete failure with logic. You say they would choose the sexuality of the one they won't get attacked? Well black people could have been chosen to be white skinned for nearly 50 years now and they haven't done it so are black people just dumb by your logic or is your logic wrong /thread.

Sexuality is not a choice, how many times do I have to say that? How many times does such a simple fact have to be said before it is finally heard? Did you choose to be heterosexual? No, no one chooses and no one can. Maybe in some dim witted movie they can, but that's movies. In real life we do not choose our sexuality, we do not choose who we are as a person. What we experience in life can have an effect, like how we might be towards others when it comes to trust or the kind of foods we'll enjoy the most, how music can make us feel. But we can never choose our sexuality. There are those who are born with a different skin who wish they had been given the choice of skin colour, in the pre-equal rights era for those with different colour skin there were many who wished they had been born white skinned so that they weren't looked down on and treated poorly for not being white skinned. It is still common enough today for some who are born dark skinned since they feel that no matter how hard they try to prove themselves in the world, they still feel that they are regarded as less than dirt by white skinned men who haven't accepted the fact that a person's skin colour does not determine the person within. In life we never get any really important choices when it comes to how we are born, who we might love when we're older, our own unique personalities. I definitely didn't get a choice when I was being conceived back in the late 70s, I would have loved a list of options so that I could have chosen. I would have chosen: Sex: Female - instead of being born with a male body Gender: Female - which I already am, but in a male body Sexuality: Heterosexual - Instead of coming to terms with my being bi-sexual Interests: Science Fiction, Reading, Old Movies, Classical Music, Nature - thankfully those are things I'm interested in, video games were something I learned and Transformers were something I was introduced to Artistic Skills: Music, Drawing, Painting, Writing - all I got was writing. Dislikes: Narrow minds, alcohol, smoking, drugs, violence, war. Disinterest in: Sex. No such list appeared though, no such list appears for anyone. There are many things we have no choice in and sexuality is one of those things.

You are throwing transgender with homosexuality which has nothing to do with eachother because you have no other defense. It's a damn freaking choice. also you are not the female gender, do you know what gender is? no matter what you do you will always be a guy just like if I chop a potatoe it will still be a damn potatoe. Yes I choose to be heterosexual, what you going to do about it? sue me for not following your rules? I know people who were gayer than the gay you probably could think up and one managed to switch his primary attraction to woman and his male attractsion are fading he's having a hard time finding men he is attracted to. Why could that be magic? Are we in disneyland? Also balck people still do not have equal rights and blacks and womans have been able to make themselves look like the better treated option for many many years, by your own logic all blacks and women are stupid. you still have not provided a reason as to how gay is not a choice, so far all i got is magic. Also there are other errors here but you still haven't even caught up. i am waiting...

It is not a choice. I know what gender is, gender is an aspect of our personalities and defined in the womb by chemicals that our developing bodies and brains are exposed to while in the womb. Sex is the physical aspect and designed around reproduction, gender is designed around personality. Sexuality is also defined within the womb due to the same chemicals that can play a part in the developing personalities. Equal rights for both those of different colour skins and for women are still a work in progress, while things have improved considerably over the past century, there is still a long way to go before the ignorance of the past is truly left in the past. And I do not like your tone, you are dismissing and ignoring the real facts while spouting your clear choice to be ignorant and narrow minded.
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Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.ghoklebutter
Indeed. I think I'll just report them, they've not listened to any of the facts explained.
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Homosexuality is not a choice: "The research on homosexuality is very clear. Homosexuality is neither mental illness nor moral depravity. It is simply the way a minority of our population expresses human love and sexuality. Study after study documents the mental health of gay men and lesbians. Studies of judgment, stability, reliability, and social and vocational adaptiveness all show that gay men and lesbians function every bit as well as heterosexuals. Nor is homosexuality a matter of individual choice. Research suggests that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population, a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the different moral values and standards of a particular culture. Contrary to what some imply, the incidence of homosexuality in a population does not appear to change with new moral codes or social mores. Research findings suggest that efforts to repair homosexuals are nothing more than social prejudice garbed in psychological accouterments." Can we please end this fallacy. http://teachthefacts.org/resources-professionalorgs.html
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[QUOTE="kalparun"]

[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"] No, it's not abnormal, it's called self awareness. The self awareness that we all have kicks in at a young age, for some it can be when they're about two years old, some at a later age. At such a young age though we do not understand exactly why we feel as we do, we just feel it. For those who are born trans-gender it's a feeling that something's not right and that feeling continues to grow as well as our developing self image of who we know we are within. Trans-gender is not a choice, it's not abnormal and it's not a mental illness, it's just one of those random acts of nature as everything else. But that simple fact is too complicated for non-trans-gender to understand.Smokescreened84

"it's a feeling that something's not right and that feeling continues to grow as well as our developing self image of who we know we are within."

"it's not abnormal and it's not a mental illness"

1. You're throwing around buzzwords

2. It is a mental illness according to the same people who give the very definition of the phrase. If you have your own definition, it doesn't really matter.

A mental disorder or mental illness is a psychological pattern or anomaly, potentially reflected in behavior, that is generally associated with distress or disability, and which is not considered part of normaldevelopment of a person's culture.

I'm mentally healthy, thank you very much. My mental health has been just fine since I finally accepted myself and stopped pretending to be a depressed, suicidal lie as society demanded because of the junk I was sadly born with between my legs, junk that I intend on having removed. I don't give a fudge if my being different from 'normals' is offensive to anyone, they aren't the ones living my life. Hate all you want, it's no skin off my nose. Only I know what it's like to be me, no one else.

You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.Smokescreened84
Indeed. I think I'll just report them, they've not listened to any of the facts explained.

kind of how you ignored my facts and ignored facts pointing to the fact you are classified as OFFICIALLy mental ill and still have not come up with "facts" that show how homosexuality is not a choice and instead put them along with your issue which in turn is saying that homosexuals are mentally ill, when that is exactly why a lot of them are pissed in the first place. So uh, you should report yourself for ignoring evidence show to you. It may be your opinion you are a guy fine, but putting homosexuals with your issue would in the PUBLICS eye have them marked as mentally ill because officially your issue is. The funny part is that's the only reason so far you have given for homosexuality not being a choice when the two are factually not related. definition of fact? there's this thing called a dictionary.
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#319 kalparun
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.PresidentKing
Indeed. I think I'll just report them, they've not listened to any of the facts explained.

still have not come up with "facts" that show how homosexuality is not a choice.

how dense are you
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.Smokescreened84
Indeed. I think I'll just report them, they've not listened to any of the facts explained.

You're reporting someone for having beliefs that you dislike?
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What the hell have I just walked into?

meconate

My thoughts exactly. Let me walk out before I lose any more brain cells.

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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.Smokescreened84
Indeed. I think I'll just report them, they've not listened to any of the facts explained.

Eh, that's not necessary. Just stop talking to them.
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#324 PresidentKing
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[QUOTE="kalparun"]Homosexuality is not a choice: "The research on homosexuality is very clear. Homosexuality is neither mental illness nor moral depravity. It is simply the way a minority of our population expresses human love and sexuality. Study after study documents the mental health of gay men and lesbians. Studies of judgment, stability, reliability, and social and vocational adaptiveness all show that gay men and lesbians function every bit as well as heterosexuals. Nor is homosexuality a matter of individual choice. Research suggests that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population, a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the different moral values and standards of a particular culture. Contrary to what some imply, the incidence of homosexuality in a population does not appear to change with new moral codes or social mores. Research findings suggest that efforts to repair homosexuals are nothing more than social prejudice garbed in psychological accouterments." Can we please end this fallacy. http://teachthefacts.org/resources-professionalorgs.html

Not taking to account environment and people that start gaining those feeling after birth. you are not bron gay if you are born gay that doesn't make sense. Early in life your surroundings, the morals you choose to listen, and the people you pay attention to the most and the ways you do it build you into the person you end up being. I am not saying it's a choice as in I woke up a chose this. otherwise, all black people are dumb for not deciding to bleach their skin white. It's an early choice, is it possible to change what you build from early in life? yes, is it easy? no, its much much harder than getting the 50 pack smoker to quit. however it is possible. But, it is based on early activity, you are not born gay I know gays that would lynch you for saying that. You are also not born straight. That isn't even a thing yet when you are born.
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#325 PresidentKing
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Smokescreened84, it would be best if you ignored those two. Your words are worthless in their view. There's no convincing them.meconate
Indeed. I think I'll just report them, they've not listened to any of the facts explained.

Reporting someone because they don't agree with you? Wow... O_o

But I am the one narrowminded?:lol:
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[QUOTE="kalparun"]Homosexuality is not a choice: "The research on homosexuality is very clear. Homosexuality is neither mental illness nor moral depravity. It is simply the way a minority of our population expresses human love and sexuality. Study after study documents the mental health of gay men and lesbians. Studies of judgment, stability, reliability, and social and vocational adaptiveness all show that gay men and lesbians function every bit as well as heterosexuals. Nor is homosexuality a matter of individual choice. Research suggests that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population, a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the different moral values and standards of a particular culture. Contrary to what some imply, the incidence of homosexuality in a population does not appear to change with new moral codes or social mores. Research findings suggest that efforts to repair homosexuals are nothing more than social prejudice garbed in psychological accouterments." Can we please end this fallacy. http://teachthefacts.org/resources-professionalorgs.htmlPresidentKing
Not taking to account environment and people that start gaining those feeling after birth. you are not bron gay if you are born gay that doesn't make sense. Early in life your surroundings, the morals you choose to listen, and the people you pay attention to the most and the ways you do it build you into the person you end up being. I am not saying it's a choice as in I woke up a chose this. otherwise, all black people are dumb for not deciding to bleach their skin white. It's an early choice, is it possible to change what you build from early in life? yes, is it easy? no, its much much harder than getting the 50 pack smoker to quit. however it is possible. But, it is based on early activity, you are not born gay I know gays that would lynch you for saying that. You are also not born straight. That isn't even a thing yet when you are born.

rofl, you have no idea what you're talking about it's like there all these words in your brain and you've mixed them all

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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="kalparun"]

"it's a feeling that something's not right and that feeling continues to grow as well as our developing self image of who we know we are within."

"it's not abnormal and it's not a mental illness"

1. You're throwing around buzzwords

2. It is a mental illness according to the same people who give the very definition of the phrase. If you have your own definition, it doesn't really matter.

A mental disorder or mental illness is a psychological pattern or anomaly, potentially reflected in behavior, that is generally associated with distress or disability, and which is not considered part of normaldevelopment of a person's culture.

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I'm mentally healthy, thank you very much. My mental health has been just fine since I finally accepted myself and stopped pretending to be a depressed, suicidal lie as society demanded because of the junk I was sadly born with between my legs, junk that I intend on having removed. I don't give a fudge if my being different from 'normals' is offensive to anyone, they aren't the ones living my life. Hate all you want, it's no skin off my nose. Only I know what it's like to be me, no one else.

You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

You will be ignored and reported. Even though this is true, there's also another issue for transgenders on both sides, once you go through with whatever surgery, there is a chance the mentally instability can die off or fade to a point where you start regretting what you did, unlike homosexuality, which is a choice, that can be changed, however, with transgenders sand surgery by that time there will be nothing you can do to be a fully functional male/female again and that's when the real depression happens.
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[QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"]Homosexuality is not a choice: "The research on homosexuality is very clear. Homosexuality is neither mental illness nor moral depravity. It is simply the way a minority of our population expresses human love and sexuality. Study after study documents the mental health of gay men and lesbians. Studies of judgment, stability, reliability, and social and vocational adaptiveness all show that gay men and lesbians function every bit as well as heterosexuals. Nor is homosexuality a matter of individual choice. Research suggests that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population, a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the different moral values and standards of a particular culture. Contrary to what some imply, the incidence of homosexuality in a population does not appear to change with new moral codes or social mores. Research findings suggest that efforts to repair homosexuals are nothing more than social prejudice garbed in psychological accouterments." Can we please end this fallacy. http://teachthefacts.org/resources-professionalorgs.html

Not taking to account environment and people that start gaining those feeling after birth. you are not bron gay if you are born gay that doesn't make sense. Early in life your surroundings, the morals you choose to listen, and the people you pay attention to the most and the ways you do it build you into the person you end up being. I am not saying it's a choice as in I woke up a chose this. otherwise, all black people are dumb for not deciding to bleach their skin white. It's an early choice, is it possible to change what you build from early in life? yes, is it easy? no, its much much harder than getting the 50 pack smoker to quit. however it is possible. But, it is based on early activity, you are not born gay I know gays that would lynch you for saying that. You are also not born straight. That isn't even a thing yet when you are born.

rofl, you have no idea what you're talking about it's like there all these words in your brain and you've confused them all

IYou aren't bron gay it's the one thing that has not been proven but has constantly been proved wrong. You need prove to show that people are born gay and it has nothing to do with early life.
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="kalparun"]

"it's a feeling that something's not right and that feeling continues to grow as well as our developing self image of who we know we are within."

"it's not abnormal and it's not a mental illness"

1. You're throwing around buzzwords

2. It is a mental illness according to the same people who give the very definition of the phrase. If you have your own definition, it doesn't really matter.

A mental disorder or mental illness is a psychological pattern or anomaly, potentially reflected in behavior, that is generally associated with distress or disability, and which is not considered part of normaldevelopment of a person's culture.

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I'm mentally healthy, thank you very much. My mental health has been just fine since I finally accepted myself and stopped pretending to be a depressed, suicidal lie as society demanded because of the junk I was sadly born with between my legs, junk that I intend on having removed. I don't give a fudge if my being different from 'normals' is offensive to anyone, they aren't the ones living my life. Hate all you want, it's no skin off my nose. Only I know what it's like to be me, no one else.

You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

I am mentally healthy, if I wasn't then I would have already been under close examination years ago. Trans-gender is very real. There are things I won't be able to experience, sadly. But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant, gender is a fluid thing that isn't just connected to reproduction. After all there are women in the world who are infertile and unable to ever be pregnant, to ever bear a child, does that make them any less of a woman? I always wish and have always wished that my body would become female in full so that i wouldn't keep feeling uncomfortable and hollow within a male body, I've never been able to identify as male even when I used to pretend in order to hide myself. Coming to accept myself took years and accepting the risks and dangers of the surgery and hormone replacement therapy took a fair bit of time since it is terrifying, but I would rather face those risks and dangers than pretend to be the man I'm not. Pretending to be a man within when I don't identify as male is very damaging and emotionally and mentally distressing. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] Not taking to account environment and people that start gaining those feeling after birth. you are not bron gay if you are born gay that doesn't make sense. Early in life your surroundings, the morals you choose to listen, and the people you pay attention to the most and the ways you do it build you into the person you end up being. I am not saying it's a choice as in I woke up a chose this. otherwise, all black people are dumb for not deciding to bleach their skin white. It's an early choice, is it possible to change what you build from early in life? yes, is it easy? no, its much much harder than getting the 50 pack smoker to quit. however it is possible. But, it is based on early activity, you are not born gay I know gays that would lynch you for saying that. You are also not born straight. That isn't even a thing yet when you are born.

rofl, you have no idea what you're talking about it's like there all these words in your brain and you've confused them all

IYou aren't bron gay it's the one thing that has not been proven but has constantly been proved wrong. You need prove to show that people are born gay and it has nothing to do with early life.

It hasn't been proven wrong. Also, that doesn't mean it's a choice you mustard brain.
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#331 PresidentKing
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[QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"] rofl, you have no idea what you're talking about it's like there all these words in your brain and you've confused them all

IYou aren't bron gay it's the one thing that has not been proven but has constantly been proved wrong. You need prove to show that people are born gay and it has nothing to do with early life.

It hasn't been proven wrong. Also, that doesn't mean it's a choice you mustard brain.

Your definition of the word choice is not the one I am using. I am talking about influence from choices not a straight up choice itself. Also you can't deny surroundings play apart, denying that is literally beyond stupid.
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#332 kalparun
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] IYou aren't bron gay it's the one thing that has not been proven but has constantly been proved wrong. You need prove to show that people are born gay and it has nothing to do with early life.

It hasn't been proven wrong. Also, that doesn't mean it's a choice you mustard brain.

Your definition of the word choice is not the one I am using. I am talking about influence from choices not a straight up choice itself. Also you can't deny surroundings play apart, denying that is literally beyond stupid.

Exterior/invorenmental influence is probably the cause of homosexuality yes. You should feel bad for using the word choice to describe the above. No wonder you've driven that guy mad.
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"] I'm mentally healthy, thank you very much. My mental health has been just fine since I finally accepted myself and stopped pretending to be a depressed, suicidal lie as society demanded because of the junk I was sadly born with between my legs, junk that I intend on having removed. I don't give a fudge if my being different from 'normals' is offensive to anyone, they aren't the ones living my life. Hate all you want, it's no skin off my nose. Only I know what it's like to be me, no one else.

You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

You will be ignored and reported. Even though this is true, there's also another issue for transgenders on both sides, once you go through with whatever surgery, there is a chance the mentally instability can die off or fade to a point where you start regretting what you did, unlike homosexuality, which is a choice, that can be changed, however, with transgenders sand surgery by that time there will be nothing you can do to be a fully functional male/female again and that's when the real depression happens.

im not breaking any rules, and im not talking about homosexuality anymore, im talking about transgenders, the guy says he is mentally stable yet he isnt and any expert will give him a 100 reasons to back that claim...yeah sure he might say he is completely healthy, but guess what? schizophrenics also believe they are at perfect mental health...because one of the biggest issues with mental illness is that the person is convinced that there is nothing wrong with his mind and that it's completely normal. the guy can have 100 transgender operations if he wants too, he will NEVER have a vagina he will only have a mutilated penis
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#334 kalparun
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

You will be ignored and reported. Even though this is true, there's also another issue for transgenders on both sides, once you go through with whatever surgery, there is a chance the mentally instability can die off or fade to a point where you start regretting what you did, unlike homosexuality, which is a choice, that can be changed, however, with transgenders sand surgery by that time there will be nothing you can do to be a fully functional male/female again and that's when the real depression happens.

im not breaking any rules, and im not talking about homosexuality anymore, im talking about transgenders, the guy says he is mentally stable yet he isnt and any expert will give him a 100 reasons to back that claim...yeah sure he might say he is completely healthy, but guess what? schizophrenics also believe they are at perfect mental health...because one of the biggest issues with mental illness is that the person is convinced that there is nothing wrong with his mind and that it's completely normal. the guy can have 100 transgender operations if he wants too, he will NEVER have a vagina he will only have a mutilated penis

well you can't really judge mentally ill people, you have a MLP avatar.
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"] I'm mentally healthy, thank you very much. My mental health has been just fine since I finally accepted myself and stopped pretending to be a depressed, suicidal lie as society demanded because of the junk I was sadly born with between my legs, junk that I intend on having removed. I don't give a fudge if my being different from 'normals' is offensive to anyone, they aren't the ones living my life. Hate all you want, it's no skin off my nose. Only I know what it's like to be me, no one else.

You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

I am mentally healthy, if I wasn't then I would have already been under close examination years ago. Trans-gender is very real. There are things I won't be able to experience, sadly. But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant, gender is a fluid thing that isn't just connected to reproduction. After all there are women in the world who are infertile and unable to ever be pregnant, to ever bear a child, does that make them any less of a woman? I always wish and have always wished that my body would become female in full so that i wouldn't keep feeling uncomfortable and hollow within a male body, I've never been able to identify as male even when I used to pretend in order to hide myself. Coming to accept myself took years and accepting the risks and dangers of the surgery and hormone replacement therapy took a fair bit of time since it is terrifying, but I would rather face those risks and dangers than pretend to be the man I'm not. Pretending to be a man within when I don't identify as male is very damaging and emotionally and mentally distressing. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant

you literally just said there's more to being female than being female. But then you would not understand her since you are a guy and would not actually know what it would feel like to actually be female. But from what I am gathering, you would still say the same thing to females, who are actually female. Making you look like a nutjob. Also females have organs males don't infertile or not.....

Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

KEY WORD BEING "YOU"!!!!!!! Your brain makes you believe you are in a body you do not identify with due to the fact there is something going on in your brain that is abnormal, thus you are having a MENTAL issue and you are a Guy. You can't change LIFE rules for DCing. Also you were born a guy, thus you are a guy, you are pretending to be female, and yes, once you go through with whatever, you are still pretending to be female, because having **** cut off and shoving a fake hole does not make you a female all of a sudden. That just offends females, mr. i don't offend anyone.
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"] I'm mentally healthy, thank you very much. My mental health has been just fine since I finally accepted myself and stopped pretending to be a depressed, suicidal lie as society demanded because of the junk I was sadly born with between my legs, junk that I intend on having removed. I don't give a fudge if my being different from 'normals' is offensive to anyone, they aren't the ones living my life. Hate all you want, it's no skin off my nose. Only I know what it's like to be me, no one else.Smokescreened84
You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

I am mentally healthy, if I wasn't then I would have already been under close examination years ago. Trans-gender is very real. There are things I won't be able to experience, sadly. But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant, gender is a fluid thing that isn't just connected to reproduction. After all there are women in the world who are infertile and unable to ever be pregnant, to ever bear a child, does that make them any less of a woman? I always wish and have always wished that my body would become female in full so that i wouldn't keep feeling uncomfortable and hollow within a male body, I've never been able to identify as male even when I used to pretend in order to hide myself. Coming to accept myself took years and accepting the risks and dangers of the surgery and hormone replacement therapy took a fair bit of time since it is terrifying, but I would rather face those risks and dangers than pretend to be the man I'm not. Pretending to be a man within when I don't identify as male is very damaging and emotionally and mentally distressing. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

Cool story and all, except that transgender is classified as a mental illness, you are trying to say that it was an error that you were born a male, even though your genitals are perfectly formed (I Assume they are) and have no problem whatsoever, your brain is also that of a male, and it originally produced male hormones, there was no error, you were born a male, the only error is your mind trying to tell you that "you are not a male".

And yes, there are infertile women, and guess what? most of them feel terrible about that and seek many ways to treat it and to cope with such an unfortunate condition, I dont want to be harsh to you, but you wont feel any better in a "girl's body" like I said you will never have a vagina you will have a mutilated penis no amount of surgery will ever give you a vagina.

Im not gonna stop you from performing said operation, it is your right, all im saying is that you ARE classified as a mentally unstable person (as much as you say that you are mentally healthy) and that your choice doesnt actually make sense, because there is nothing wrong with your body, only with your mind, trying to convince you that there was some error.

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[QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"] It hasn't been proven wrong. Also, that doesn't mean it's a choice you mustard brain.

Your definition of the word choice is not the one I am using. I am talking about influence from choices not a straight up choice itself. Also you can't deny surroundings play apart, denying that is literally beyond stupid.

Exterior/invorenmental influence is probably the cause of homosexuality yes. You should feel bad for using the word choice to describe the above. No wonder you've driven that guy mad.

Early choices you make in life have an effect. you do realize that? you are in the stages of life where your brain doesn't really know what's going on, so yes, accidental choices made while yound have an influence in what happens period. it is also possible, although difficult, to pull out and switch later in life, but those I will admit are more rare.h
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#338 kalparun
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] Your definition of the word choice is not the one I am using. I am talking about influence from choices not a straight up choice itself. Also you can't deny surroundings play apart, denying that is literally beyond stupid.

Exterior/invorenmental influence is probably the cause of homosexuality yes. You should feel bad for using the word choice to describe the above. No wonder you've driven that guy mad.

Early choices you make in life have an effect. you do realize that? you are in the stages of life where your brain doesn't really know what's going on, so yes, accidental choices made while yound have an influence in what happens period. it is also possible, although difficult, to pull out and switch later in life, but those I will admit are more rare.h

"accidental choice"? Do you even know what "choice" means
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smh
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.lightleggy

I am mentally healthy, if I wasn't then I would have already been under close examination years ago. Trans-gender is very real. There are things I won't be able to experience, sadly. But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant, gender is a fluid thing that isn't just connected to reproduction. After all there are women in the world who are infertile and unable to ever be pregnant, to ever bear a child, does that make them any less of a woman? I always wish and have always wished that my body would become female in full so that i wouldn't keep feeling uncomfortable and hollow within a male body, I've never been able to identify as male even when I used to pretend in order to hide myself. Coming to accept myself took years and accepting the risks and dangers of the surgery and hormone replacement therapy took a fair bit of time since it is terrifying, but I would rather face those risks and dangers than pretend to be the man I'm not. Pretending to be a man within when I don't identify as male is very damaging and emotionally and mentally distressing. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

Cool story and all, except that transgender is classified as a mental illness, you are trying to say that it was an error that you were born a male, even though your genitals are perfectly formed (I Assume they are) and have no problem whatsoever, your brain is also that of a male, and it originally produced male hormones, there was no error, you were born a male, the only error is your mind trying to tell you that "you are not a male".

And yes, there are infertile women, and guess what? most of them feel terrible about that and seek many ways to treat it and to cope with such an unfortunate condition, I dont want to be harsh to you, but you wont feel any better in a "girl's body" like I said you will never have a vagina you will have a mutilated penis no amount of surgery will ever give you a vagina.

Im not gonna stop you from performing said operation, it is your right, all im saying is that you ARE classified as a mentally unstable person (as much as you say that you are mentally healthy) and that your choice doesnt actually make sense, because there is nothing wrong with your body, only with your mind, trying to convince you that there was some error.

Think of it as your brain running Windows Vista early release instead of Windows Xp pro or Windows 7.
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I am curious to know why so many transgender people want to change their body type to match their gender when they also say that gender is separate/independent of body type. I don't see the point of going to the trouble.
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[QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"] Exterior/invorenmental influence is probably the cause of homosexuality yes. You should feel bad for using the word choice to describe the above. No wonder you've driven that guy mad.

Early choices you make in life have an effect. you do realize that? you are in the stages of life where your brain doesn't really know what's going on, so yes, accidental choices made while yound have an influence in what happens period. it is also possible, although difficult, to pull out and switch later in life, but those I will admit are more rare.h

"accidental choice"? Do you even know what "choice" means

Accidental as in you are making the choices without knowing what the consequences are behind the, idiot.
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

I am mentally healthy, if I wasn't then I would have already been under close examination years ago. Trans-gender is very real. There are things I won't be able to experience, sadly. But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant, gender is a fluid thing that isn't just connected to reproduction. After all there are women in the world who are infertile and unable to ever be pregnant, to ever bear a child, does that make them any less of a woman? I always wish and have always wished that my body would become female in full so that i wouldn't keep feeling uncomfortable and hollow within a male body, I've never been able to identify as male even when I used to pretend in order to hide myself. Coming to accept myself took years and accepting the risks and dangers of the surgery and hormone replacement therapy took a fair bit of time since it is terrifying, but I would rather face those risks and dangers than pretend to be the man I'm not. Pretending to be a man within when I don't identify as male is very damaging and emotionally and mentally distressing. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant

you literally just said there's more to being female than being female. But then you would not understand her since you are a guy and would not actually know what it would feel like to actually be female. But from what I am gathering, you would still say the same thing to females, who are actually female. Making you look like a nutjob. Also females have organs males don't infertile or not.....

Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

KEY WORD BEING "YOU"!!!!!!! Your brain makes you believe you are in a body you do not identify with due to the fact there is something going on in your brain that is abnormal, thus you are having a MENTAL issue and you are a Guy. You can't change LIFE rules for DCing. Also you were born a guy, thus you are a guy, you are pretending to be female, and yes, once you go through with whatever, you are still pretending to be female, because having **** cut off and shoving a fake hole does not make you a female all of a sudden. That just offends females, mr. i don't offend anyone.

I couldn't have said it any better. also Smoke, please tell me what being a woman is all about. your vagina will pretty much just be a hole where you pee from and where you will have intercouse, plain intercouse, in other words its just a hole, it wont perform any function that an actual vagina can perform. No wonder why most of my female friends hate transgenders, because they actually feel offended to see someone not accepting the body they were born with and trying to be "female" no amount of surgery will make you a female, that is something you have to understand, and if your brain tries to convince you that there is something wrong with your body even though your body is perfectly healthy from a medical point, then you have a mental issue.
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#344 PresidentKing
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I am curious to know why so many transgender people want to change their body type to match their gender when they also say that gender is separate/independent of body type. I don't see the point of going to the trouble.Laihendi
When their brains run on Vistas unstable release, you have to up- MS jokes aside, the issue is that thye can never actually gain even near the level to be what their brain is telling them to, so them trying to change their body makes no sense at all. The other part is political correctness to maintain control.
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] You are not mentally healthy, for the simple fact that your mind is conflicting with your body, your mind doesnt want to accept that you were born a male, that is being mentally unstable, go on and ask any psychiatrist about it. and better enjoy being a man because you can actually do it, no matter how many surgeries you have you will never be able to feel the joy a woman would feel when carrying a life inside of her, nor will you ever understand why girls feel so depressed during their period, you wont understand anything, you would just be an empty shell. sure you can have a vagina but being a woman is far more than simply having a hole between your legs, no amount of surgery will change that.

You will be ignored and reported. Even though this is true, there's also another issue for transgenders on both sides, once you go through with whatever surgery, there is a chance the mentally instability can die off or fade to a point where you start regretting what you did, unlike homosexuality, which is a choice, that can be changed, however, with transgenders sand surgery by that time there will be nothing you can do to be a fully functional male/female again and that's when the real depression happens.

im not breaking any rules, and im not talking about homosexuality anymore, im talking about transgenders, the guy says he is mentally stable yet he isnt and any expert will give him a 100 reasons to back that claim...yeah sure he might say he is completely healthy, but guess what? schizophrenics also believe they are at perfect mental health...because one of the biggest issues with mental illness is that the person is convinced that there is nothing wrong with his mind and that it's completely normal. the guy can have 100 transgender operations if he wants too, he will NEVER have a vagina he will only have a mutilated penis

Well done, you've shown that you know nothing about SRS. I could go into the gory details but there are a lot of children on these boards. Basically the male parts are first removed, the testicles are thrown away since those are not needed, while the rest is cut into half and then used to make the new vagina This process takes several hours and is pretty delicate work, they've perfected the process considerably over the years to where it looks completely natural. It only takes one surgery to do that. Dilation has to be done for a long while to ensure that the body won't try to seal over the new genitals, about a couple of years or more. It can be painful but eventually the body stops trying to seal that area. The full gory details are easily found online in medical journals and information that explain the full surgery, just look it up. Saves me spending hours and probably getting into trouble for going into really gory detail. The recovery is said to be very painful and the person basically bleeds a lot for around two months until the bleeding stops. Medical science hasn't refined the process to be able to implant a womb and uterus into the body yet, they've been working on it but it's still very much a work in progress and probably won't be refined for a long time. Such a thing would be very useful for any women who's womb isn't viable for growing a child. And I'm not male, being referred to as such is so demeaning.
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#346 kalparun
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[QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] Early choices you make in life have an effect. you do realize that? you are in the stages of life where your brain doesn't really know what's going on, so yes, accidental choices made while yound have an influence in what happens period. it is also possible, although difficult, to pull out and switch later in life, but those I will admit are more rare.h

"accidental choice"? Do you even know what "choice" means

Accidental as in you are making the choices without knowing what the consequences are behind the, idiot.

if you don't know what consequence your choice has, then how can you willingly and purposedly choose to be homosexual genius?
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#347 PresidentKing
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smh dave123321
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#348 kalparun
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="Smokescreened84"] I am mentally healthy, if I wasn't then I would have already been under close examination years ago. Trans-gender is very real. There are things I won't be able to experience, sadly. But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant, gender is a fluid thing that isn't just connected to reproduction. After all there are women in the world who are infertile and unable to ever be pregnant, to ever bear a child, does that make them any less of a woman? I always wish and have always wished that my body would become female in full so that i wouldn't keep feeling uncomfortable and hollow within a male body, I've never been able to identify as male even when I used to pretend in order to hide myself. Coming to accept myself took years and accepting the risks and dangers of the surgery and hormone replacement therapy took a fair bit of time since it is terrifying, but I would rather face those risks and dangers than pretend to be the man I'm not. Pretending to be a man within when I don't identify as male is very damaging and emotionally and mentally distressing. Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

But there's more to female than periods and being pregnant

you literally just said there's more to being female than being female. But then you would not understand her since you are a guy and would not actually know what it would feel like to actually be female. But from what I am gathering, you would still say the same thing to females, who are actually female. Making you look like a nutjob. Also females have organs males don't infertile or not.....

Gender dysphoria is a horrible thing to live with when the body doesn't match the gender you identify as.

KEY WORD BEING "YOU"!!!!!!! Your brain makes you believe you are in a body you do not identify with due to the fact there is something going on in your brain that is abnormal, thus you are having a MENTAL issue and you are a Guy. You can't change LIFE rules for DCing. Also you were born a guy, thus you are a guy, you are pretending to be female, and yes, once you go through with whatever, you are still pretending to be female, because having **** cut off and shoving a fake hole does not make you a female all of a sudden. That just offends females, mr. i don't offend anyone.

I couldn't have said it any better. also Smoke, please tell me what being a woman is all about. your vagina will pretty much just be a hole where you pee from and where you will have intercouse, plain intercouse, in other words its just a hole, it wont perform any function that an actual vagina can perform. No wonder why most of my female friends hate transgenders, because they actually feel offended to see someone not accepting the body they were born with and trying to be "female" no amount of surgery will make you a female, that is something you have to understand, and if your brain tries to convince you that there is something wrong with your body even though your body is perfectly healthy from a medical point, then you have a mental issue.

I guess he's trying to aesthetically change his body. Like doing a piercing. You don't do it because you think you're sick, you do it because you like your body better that way. He's not trying to cure something.
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#349 PresidentKing
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[QUOTE="kalparun"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"][QUOTE="kalparun"] "accidental choice"? Do you even know what "choice" means

Accidental as in you are making the choices without knowing what the consequences are behind the, idiot.

if you don't know what consequence your choice has, then how can you willingly and purposedly choose to be homosexual genius?

You are still choosing to do it anyway. Do you know what choice means. I could choose to jump into a pool of water, but for all I know the water is 3 inches deep and i am jumping from 5 feet. I know I don't know the water level so I still CHOOSE to do it. Why are you so damn stupid?
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[QUOTE="Smokescreened84"][QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="PresidentKing"] You will be ignored and reported. Even though this is true, there's also another issue for transgenders on both sides, once you go through with whatever surgery, there is a chance the mentally instability can die off or fade to a point where you start regretting what you did, unlike homosexuality, which is a choice, that can be changed, however, with transgenders sand surgery by that time there will be nothing you can do to be a fully functional male/female again and that's when the real depression happens.

im not breaking any rules, and im not talking about homosexuality anymore, im talking about transgenders, the guy says he is mentally stable yet he isnt and any expert will give him a 100 reasons to back that claim...yeah sure he might say he is completely healthy, but guess what? schizophrenics also believe they are at perfect mental health...because one of the biggest issues with mental illness is that the person is convinced that there is nothing wrong with his mind and that it's completely normal. the guy can have 100 transgender operations if he wants too, he will NEVER have a vagina he will only have a mutilated penis

Well done, you've shown that you know nothing about SRS. I could go into the gory details but there are a lot of children on these boards. Basically the male parts are first removed, the testicles are thrown away since those are not needed, while the rest is cut into half and then used to make the new vagina This process takes several hours and is pretty delicate work, they've perfected the process considerably over the years to where it looks completely natural. It only takes one surgery to do that. Dilation has to be done for a long while to ensure that the body won't try to seal over the new genitals, about a couple of years or more. It can be painful but eventually the body stops trying to seal that area. The full gory details are easily found online in medical journals and information that explain the full surgery, just look it up. Saves me spending hours and probably getting into trouble for going into really gory detail. The recovery is said to be very painful and the person basically bleeds a lot for around two months until the bleeding stops. Medical science hasn't refined the process to be able to implant a womb and uterus into the body yet, they've been working on it but it's still very much a work in progress and probably won't be refined for a long time. Such a thing would be very useful for any women who's womb isn't viable for growing a child. And I'm not male, being referred to as such is so demeaning.

Which is exactly what I said, your vagina will only be a hole, nothing more. and you are a male, whether you like it or not, because you have male genitalia and a body that naturally produces male hormones, no amount of surgery will ever change that, its basic biology and its also the reason why your personal information on things such as civil registry will always mention you as a man, you dont have 3 sexual chromosomes, therefore you are a male, not an actual hermaphrodite, which is the only condition a person with male genitalia could have that would classify him as something other than a male.