My girl "friend" may be pregnant

and it wouldn't be from me because we never had sex. I'm freaking out because she told me she took 3 positive tests last night, and said it would be from her last bf, whom she dated 2 months ago, and heck they could have had sex well before that n she acknowledges that it could have been up to 3 months since they did have sex. I know she hasn't been with any other guys since I met her because Ive been with her all the time and know I've been the only guy she's intimate with and she implied it would have to be be from him anyway. She's had her normal periods since then until this weekend when she told me the first day she bled, and yesterday she didn't and has had cramps and she took the tests and they were positive. These tests are rarely wrong, but I'm wondering if she took them at the right time and if she's reading them correctly and stuff like that. My hunch is that she IS pregnant because of the one day bleeding, but I'm trying to get her to see a doctor ASAP to find out. she hasn't really had any symptoms other than stomach cramps and doesnt look bloated or anything, but assuming it's been 3 months, she could very well be on that path.

I'm really really scared right now, I've been trying to be with this girl since I met her and shes been wanting some space since we started getting intimate the first few months and we haven't really hungout much at all in the past 4 weeks. I love this girl and I want to be with her, and if she's pregnant with another guy's baby, it could be a nightmare :( She's 18 and still has to finish high school this year ..I'm 19 going to college. As far as her last bf is concerned, he's been with another girl and been sending hate texts to her and bringing her down and trying to make her miserable. He's a stoner and whatnot, so I don't think he's gonna do much for her if she is pregnant.

Anyway, I know im on a site with a bunch of guys but maybe some of you older peeps have some tips on what I need to know and the things i should worry and prepare myself for

See there's this show called Jerry Springer...

GET OUT AS QUICK AS YOU can!

My girl "friend" may be pregnant...she told me she took 3 positive tests last night

MaddenBowler10

See a doctor. Three positive tests means she's very likely pregnant. If she is - she needs to start prenatal care. FYI some women still get their period while pregnant.Sajedene

GET OUT AS QUICK AS YOU can!

needled24-7

See a doctor. Three positive tests means she's very likely pregnant. If she is - she needs to start prenatal care. FYI some women still get their period while pregnant.Sajedene

Dude, why would you want to get stuck with that **** Get out now. She's 1 out of 6 billion people, trust me, she's nothing special. You'll find someone else. Don't ruin your life.

Why doesn't she go to the doctors and have an abortion if necessary? That is, if she wants to. She may not agree with your thoughts on this.giant_bowser

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]See a doctor. Three positive tests means she's very likely pregnant. If she is - she needs to start prenatal care. FYI some women still get their period while pregnant.rawsavon

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GET OUT AS QUICK AS YOU can!

GazaAli

[QUOTE="Sajedene"]See a doctor. Three positive tests means she's very likely pregnant. If she is - she needs to start prenatal care. FYI some women still get their period while pregnant.MaddenBowler10

Well this is a reason that I'm waiting untill I'm married although in this case it's not your fault.

Yep, chick knocked up by stoner dude, you can do better man!X360PS3AMD05

I would say get out while you can, I know it may be hard but you don't want to get dragged down because your girlfriend got pregnant from another guy. Just be glad the baby isn't yours. Also if people start spreading rumors that you got her pregnant, you know the truth, and that is all you need. I would also advise to try convincing her to abort the baby or put it up for adoption (preferablly adoption).

HAHAAHAHA!!! Maybe it's a good thing that girl's don't like me. A blessing in disguise.

[QUOTE="X360PS3AMD05"]Yep, chick knocked up by stoner dude, you can do better man!MaddenBowler10

I was going to say coat hanger , but i been suspended two times before for suggesting coat hangers in topics like this and am on my last warning then am banned. Dump her , i get a hunch that shes been cheating on you from the information you have provided. Such as not wanting to get intimate and wanting personal space. That she was still having periods for three months since her last boy friend also. It is unheard of to still have periods while .

Immature would be cutting her off completely, it's cool to be a friend but realize how lucky you are to dodger that bullet! Time to care for another girl........X360PS3AMD05

There's going to be a lot of soul searching on your part as well as for her. From the sound of it either one of you is ready for the relationship, let alone a future together.

Ultimately that is your decision, and I do wish you the best regardless of the choice you make.

I was going to say coat hanger , but i been suspended two times before for suggesting coat hangers in topics like this and am on my last warning then am banned. Dump her , i get a hunch that shes been cheating on you from the information you have provided. Such as not wanting to get intimate and wanting personal space. That she was still having periods for three months since her last boy friend also. It is unheard of to still have periods while .

EvilSteveo

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I was going to say coat hanger , but i been suspended two times before for suggesting coat hangers in topics like this and am on my last warning then am banned. Dump her , i get a hunch that shes been cheating on you from the information you have provided. Such as not wanting to get intimate and wanting personal space. That she was still having periods for three months since her last boy friend also. It is unheard of to still have periods while .

MaddenBowler10

Thanks for informing that to me , you learn something new everyday. Here's a gingerbread man for teaching me something.

I would still dump her.

If she is pregnant with another guy's baby, then I suggest you dont let it become your problem.

and it wouldn't be from me because we never had sex. I'm freaking out because she told me she took 3 positive tests last night, and said it would be from her last bf, whom she dated 2 months ago, and heck they could have had sex well before that n she acknowledges that it could have been up to 3 months since they did have sex. (...) She's had her normal periods since then until this weekend when she told me the first day she bled, and yesterday she didn't and has had cramps and she took the tests and they were positive.

MaddenBowler10

Wait. Am I understandig it right? She had a sexual intercourse 3 months ago. To this time she had normal periods, and yesterday she tested pregnant? This is impossible.

If she wants to deal with it by herself, leave her. Her problem doesn't need to be yours.JC346

as a side note, its really up to you. im mean most of us will tell you forget about her, but you know better. i mean if you feel that she is something else to you and you can eventually get somewhere with her, you will regret leaving.GazaAli

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and it wouldn't be from me because we never had sex. I'm freaking out because she told me she took 3 positive tests last night, and said it would be from her last bf, whom she dated 2 months ago, and heck they could have had sex well before that n she acknowledges that it could have been up to 3 months since they did have sex. (...) She's had her normal periods since then until this weekend when she told me the first day she bled, and yesterday she didn't and has had cramps and she took the tests and they were positive.

shinian

Wait. Am I understandig it right? She had a sexual intercourse 3 months ago. To this time she had normal periods, and yesterday she tested pregnant? This is impossible.

That is what i was thinking as were , shes obviously has been cheating on you if you have had no sexual relations with her with your penis and her vagina.

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]

and it wouldn't be from me because we never had sex. I'm freaking out because she told me she took 3 positive tests last night, and said it would be from her last bf, whom she dated 2 months ago, and heck they could have had sex well before that n she acknowledges that it could have been up to 3 months since they did have sex. (...) She's had her normal periods since then until this weekend when she told me the first day she bled, and yesterday she didn't and has had cramps and she took the tests and they were positive.

shinian

Wait. Am I understandig it right? She had a sexual intercourse 3 months ago. To this time she had normal periods, and yesterday she tested pregnant? This is impossible.

in the uk the clearblue preg tests actually tell you how many days or weeks preg you are

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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]

and it wouldn't be from me because we never had sex. I'm freaking out because she told me she took 3 positive tests last night, and said it would be from her last bf, whom she dated 2 months ago, and heck they could have had sex well before that n she acknowledges that it could have been up to 3 months since they did have sex. (...) She's had her normal periods since then until this weekend when she told me the first day she bled, and yesterday she didn't and has had cramps and she took the tests and they were positive.

MaddenBowler10

Wait. Am I understandig it right? She had a sexual intercourse 3 months ago. To this time she had normal periods, and yesterday she tested pregnant? This is impossible.

Am start-in to think what you told me is just an Internet myth. Trust me am the God dam Speech Impediment Batman.

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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]

and it wouldn't be from me because we never had sex. I'm freaking out because she told me she took 3 positive tests last night, and said it would be from her last bf, whom she dated 2 months ago, and heck they could have had sex well before that n she acknowledges that it could have been up to 3 months since they did have sex. (...) She's had her normal periods since then until this weekend when she told me the first day she bled, and yesterday she didn't and has had cramps and she took the tests and they were positive.

MaddenBowler10

Wait. Am I understandig it right? She had a sexual intercourse 3 months ago. To this time she had normal periods, and yesterday she tested pregnant? This is impossible.

I'm sorry to ruin your world view but it's not possible. Pregnancy stages of Morula and Blastula rule out the possibility of having a period. If in some bizzare accident the period would occur the implanted cyst would be disposed outside of the body.

Unless we are talking about Virgin Mary the 2nd.

[QUOTE="GazaAli"]as a side note, its really up to you. im mean most of us will tell you forget about her, but you know better. i mean if you feel that she is something else to you and you can eventually get somewhere with her, you will regret leaving.trust_nobody

TC you are not getting a lota support here...

Here's a story that might cheer you up, if you two do decide to stay together.

[spoiler] go down to his personal life section [/spoiler]

[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"][QUOTE="shinian"]

Wait. Am I understandig it right? She had a sexual intercourse 3 months ago. To this time she had normal periods, and yesterday she tested pregnant? This is impossible.

shinian

I'm sorry to ruin your world view but it's not possible. Pregnancy stages of Morula and Blastula rule out the possibility of having a period. If in some bizzare accident the period would occur the implanted cyst would be disposed outside of the body.

Unless we are talking about Virgin Mary the 2nd.

3rd year on med. university, M.D course.

Kick the door down and make a break for it.

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[QUOTE="GazaAli"]as a side note, its really up to you. im mean most of us will tell you forget about her, but you know better. i mean if you feel that she is something else to you and you can eventually get somewhere with her, you will regret leaving.MaddenBowler10