North Carolina Pastor: Beat the gaaay out of your children!

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ITT: Mindstorm is filling in for Crushmaster. Perhaps Blackregiment1 too, in the near future.

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Then people will try to get him ban and history repeat itself in OT.
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#252 alexside1
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psychological/emotional genderZeviander

Where the heck do you get these words from? I can't google for it.

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#253 Zeviander
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Where the heck do you get these words from? I can't google for it.alexside1
Gender is independent of sex. What a person "feels" (commonly called "identify as") they are may differ from what they are on the outside. It is why gender roles cause so much trauma for those unable to fit into the tight pigeon holes set forth by religiously-sourced cultural norms.
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#254 Wolf-Man2006
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People like that give conservatives a bad name....

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[QUOTE="Zeviander"] Disagree all you want... it doesn't stop the facts from being there. It is people like you, and your binary view of humanity, that causes people who cannot fit into these established paradigms so much emotional stress and suffering.toast_burner

Are we speaking here about gender roles or homosexuality? If it's gender roles then I do not see how my beliefs regarding the topic will cause much suffering upon anyone as it will largely only effect my own particular marriage and whether I have a male or female pastor. If this is in regards to homosexuality, even if I had a child who was gay I would think no less of him.

It's not just homosexuality, but also trans-genders. Transgendered people are probably the most discriminated group of people in the modern world. This idea of gender norms that people like you try to enforce upon other people encourages that discrimination and makes their life hell.

Being trans-gender/trans-sexual myself, and bi-sexual, then I agree with this. I know all too well what it's like to be hated on by narrow minded fools who use a book of fables as their excuse to hate instead of accept that difference simply happens and it isn't the 'work of the devil' or some other backwards way of thinking. It's just nature doing it's thing. A narrow minded fanatic can thump their book of fables all they want, but it doesn't change the fact that you can't deny nor defy nature and the way it works. Homosexuality, trans-gender/trans-sexual, bi-sexuality and every other difference will always be around. Sadly that also means the really vile differences like pedophilia, which is loved and accepted by religion going by the number of pedophile priests who think it's their right by God to abuse and destroy a child's life, will also continue. But homosexuality, bi-sexuality, Trans-gender/trans-sexual are harmless and there is no excuse to hate on someone who is merely born as they are. The weapon of mass stupidity that is the bible is not the guide of life, it's just a book that has been twisted by narrow minded control freaks for centuries. It is not the law and rule of nature, nature does it's own thing regardless.
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People like that give conservatives a bad name....

Wolf-Man2006

Most conservatives give conservatives a bad name.

[spoiler] lolconservatism [/spoiler]

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[QUOTE="Wolf-Man2006"]

People like that give conservatives a bad name....

MobilechicaneX

Most conservatives give conservatives a bad name.

[spoiler] lolconservatism [/spoiler]

Its hilarious because people make it sound like this is a small group within the conservative scope of things.. That isn't the case what so ever, there are many house reps and senators with these kinds of ideas.. The Evengalical (aka Crazy) block is one of the largest and influential power bases within the Republican party for the last decade or two now..
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#258 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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I'd like to see some studies about how one "beats the gay out of somebody.

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#259 mindstorm
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ITT: Mindstorm is filling in for Crushmaster. Perhaps Blackregiment1 too, in the near future.

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This is not to say that I am desiring the spread of hate and discord, but if I see that there are few speaking out against immorality then I must do so.
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#260 tenaka2
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[QUOTE="sSubZerOo"]Outside of reproductive capabilites there isn't a difference.. These roles you speak of are manufactured.. Especially with the widely varying aspects of physical attributes of people.. mindstorm
I would very much argue that there are emotional and relational differences as well. I will note, however, one of the reasons I believe gender roles to be important is because of certain, as you put it, manufactured notions that are brought about because of religion. As such, I would not expect the non-religious to participate in such ideals. In other words, I do not expect a non-Christian to adhere to Christian ideals. This not saying an unbeliever cannot be moral but it does mean the unbeliever's motivations are different.

I would argue that unbeliever's motivations are usually more pure then religious peoples.

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#261 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Do you need a haymaker? A scissor kick? Punch to the groin? How does one achieve the beating out of gayness? Body blows or do you work the head?

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#262 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="sSubZerOo"]Outside of reproductive capabilites there isn't a difference.. These roles you speak of are manufactured.. Especially with the widely varying aspects of physical attributes of people.. tenaka2

I would very much argue that there are emotional and relational differences as well. I will note, however, one of the reasons I believe gender roles to be important is because of certain, as you put it, manufactured notions that are brought about because of religion. As such, I would not expect the non-religious to participate in such ideals. In other words, I do not expect a non-Christian to adhere to Christian ideals. This not saying an unbeliever cannot be moral but it does mean the unbeliever's motivations are different.

I would argue that unbeliever's motivations are usually more pure then religious peoples.

Possibly - but this also depends heavily upon the religious person being spoken of. I know many religious people who are quite hateful and self-righteous. As such, any good they do is for their own glorification. However, I know some Christians who will sacrifice every comfort and pleasure for the sake of others because of the love in their heart for God and people.
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#263 tenaka2
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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"] I would very much argue that there are emotional and relational differences as well. I will note, however, one of the reasons I believe gender roles to be important is because of certain, as you put it, manufactured notions that are brought about because of religion. As such, I would not expect the non-religious to participate in such ideals. In other words, I do not expect a non-Christian to adhere to Christian ideals. This not saying an unbeliever cannot be moral but it does mean the unbeliever's motivations are different.mindstorm

I would argue that unbeliever's motivations are usually more pure then religious peoples.

Possibly - but this also depends heavily upon the religious person being spoken of. I know many religious people who are quite hateful and self-righteous. As such, any good they do is for their own glorification. However, I know some Christians who will sacrifice every comfort and pleasure for the sake of others because of the love in their heart for God and people.

THis would more then likely apply to you as you do seem very devout.

However most people that claim to be religious only do good deeds in the hopes of getting a better seat in heaven.

A good deed done by someone not expecting reward is a lot more noble then a good deed done out of selfisness.

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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="tenaka2"]

I would argue that unbeliever's motivations are usually more pure then religious peoples.

tenaka2

Possibly - but this also depends heavily upon the religious person being spoken of. I know many religious people who are quite hateful and self-righteous. As such, any good they do is for their own glorification. However, I know some Christians who will sacrifice every comfort and pleasure for the sake of others because of the love in their heart for God and people.

THis would more then likely apply to you as you do seem very devout.

However most people that claim to be religious only do good deeds in the hopes of getting a better seat in heaven.

A good deed done by someone not expecting reward is a lot more noble then a good deed done out of selfisness.

Is it, though? The end result is the same.
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#265 tenaka2
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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"] Possibly - but this also depends heavily upon the religious person being spoken of. I know many religious people who are quite hateful and self-righteous. As such, any good they do is for their own glorification. However, I know some Christians who will sacrifice every comfort and pleasure for the sake of others because of the love in their heart for God and people.sonicare

THis would more then likely apply to you as you do seem very devout.

However most people that claim to be religious only do good deeds in the hopes of getting a better seat in heaven.

A good deed done by someone not expecting reward is a lot more noble then a good deed done out of selfisness.

Is it, though? The end result is the same.

Is it though?

Its possible to win a race by either training really hard or killing the opposition. The result would be the same.

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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"] I would very much argue that there are emotional and relational differences as well. I will note, however, one of the reasons I believe gender roles to be important is because of certain, as you put it, manufactured notions that are brought about because of religion. As such, I would not expect the non-religious to participate in such ideals. In other words, I do not expect a non-Christian to adhere to Christian ideals. This not saying an unbeliever cannot be moral but it does mean the unbeliever's motivations are different.mindstorm

I would argue that unbeliever's motivations are usually more pure then religious peoples.

Possibly - but this also depends heavily upon the religious person being spoken of. I know many religious people who are quite hateful and self-righteous. As such, any good they do is for their own glorification. However, I know some Christians who will sacrifice every comfort and pleasure for the sake of others because of the love in their heart for God and people.

You do come across as rather self righteous. You're not too over the top, but you still seem to act like you know what god wants.

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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="tenaka2"]

I would argue that unbeliever's motivations are usually more pure then religious peoples.

toast_burner

Possibly - but this also depends heavily upon the religious person being spoken of. I know many religious people who are quite hateful and self-righteous. As such, any good they do is for their own glorification. However, I know some Christians who will sacrifice every comfort and pleasure for the sake of others because of the love in their heart for God and people.

You do come across as rather self righteous. You're not too over the top, but you still seem to act like you know what god wants.

The only reason why the latter seems true is because I acknowledge the Bible as an authority.

In reality I am proud of how just how inexpressibly humble I am. (joke)

I will admit, however, that I have had problems with self-righteousness in the past. One can say that I am a recovering religious person who seeks after the grace of Christ. :P

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There are so many things wrong with what he has said that I am really not sure how to be go about being offended by it. I mean, first of all, he acts as if gender norms are a constant which never have and never will change. Then there's the fact that he's advocating the abuse of children. He's also a bigoted sh*t head for suggesting that flamboyant behaviors are inherently part of homosexual nature and that they are at all a bad thing. Overall, it's probably best to just laugh at him for being so stupid and then move on.

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#269 DaBrainz
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Wish people would break the mindset that having a state sanctioned marriage is important. Its not and at the same time take care of all this nonsense.
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#270 BreakingDeath
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By the way, I'm 98% convinced that Sean Harris is a closeted homosexual himself. Can't someone set him up with a hidden camera trick?
I'd love to see that guys life get ruined, he deserves it. I have zero tolerance for these kind of 'people'.

TheFlush

Typical stereotype. He disagrees with homosexuality, so he must be gay If he did something like this numerous times, then I would have to agree. But once, maybe twice? Come on.. Oh, and that's a terrible logic. Use that logic on some of the atheists of OT on being closeted-Christians and tell me the outcome.

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I just edited my post three times now, and the update won't go through. What gives, Gamespot?
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#272 Wolf-Man2006
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[QUOTE="MobilechicaneX"]

[QUOTE="Wolf-Man2006"]

People like that give conservatives a bad name....

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Most conservatives give conservatives a bad name.

[spoiler] lolconservatism [/spoiler]

Its hilarious because people make it sound like this is a small group within the conservative scope of things.. That isn't the case what so ever, there are many house reps and senators with these kinds of ideas.. The Evengalical (aka Crazy) block is one of the largest and influential power bases within the Republican party for the last decade or two now..

To be honest not every conservative out there is that demented..

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ITT: Mindstorm is filling in for Crushmaster. Perhaps Blackregiment1 too, in the near future.

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Mind isn't crazy or stupid though....

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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]

The glorious theocracy that is teh USA.

What ever happened to the land of the free?

It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money.
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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="tenaka2"]

The glorious theocracy that is teh USA.

What ever happened to the land of the free?

It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money.

lol
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="tenaka2"]

The glorious theocracy that is teh USA.

What ever happened to the land of the free?

It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money.

lol

It is. If you think they would not get any benefit from getting married there would be no incentive of trying to fight the rights to do so. Thats why the states don't want to recognize it. It's very simple the root of all evil, MONIES!
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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]

The glorious theocracy that is teh USA.

What ever happened to the land of the free?

xscrapzx

It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money.

Is that why heterosexual couples get married too?

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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"] It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money. xscrapzx
lol

It is. If you think they would not get any benefit from getting married there would be no incentive of trying to fight the rights to do so. Thats why the states don't want to recognize it. It's very simple the root of all evil, MONIES!

I reject this marxist interpretation.
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="tenaka2"]

The glorious theocracy that is teh USA.

What ever happened to the land of the free?

It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money.

Is that why heterosexual couples get married too?

Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="xscrapzx"] It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money. xscrapzx

Is that why heterosexual couples get married too?

Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.

So love and creating a family has nothing to do with it. That's nice to know.

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Eh, an eye for an eye. Give me a crowbar and let me beat the stupid out of him. :twisted:
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#282 xscrapzx
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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] lol-Sun_Tzu-
It is. If you think they would not get any benefit from getting married there would be no incentive of trying to fight the rights to do so. Thats why the states don't want to recognize it. It's very simple the root of all evil, MONIES!

I reject this marxist interpretation.

I don't think there is anything marxist about it at all. Its very simple, a gay couple lives with eachother, they both pay bills and taxes and want their cut as well. I don't think its that far fetched. They want to be recognized by the state as well.
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="xscrapzx"] It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money. xscrapzx

Is that why heterosexual couples get married too?

Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.

Men earn more than women so two men together and it's all $$$$

Also no kids usually and gays are ballin' with the cash.

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#284 xscrapzx
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

Is that why heterosexual couples get married too?

Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.

So love and creating a family has nothing to do with it. That's nice to know.

With all do respect, you can't create a natural family with a gay couple. At least between the two of them and by no means am I saying that gay marriage is wrong or am I against it because at the end of the day whatever which way is decided. I'm still going to have to wake up in the morning and go to work to pay my bills. I could care less to be honest, just stating that some want the benefits of marriage. If you think none of them don't they you are being very naive.
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"] It is. If you think they would not get any benefit from getting married there would be no incentive of trying to fight the rights to do so. Thats why the states don't want to recognize it. It's very simple the root of all evil, MONIES!xscrapzx
I reject this marxist interpretation.

I don't think there is anything marxist about it at all. Its very simple, a gay couple lives with eachother, they both pay bills and taxes and want their cut as well. I don't think its that far fetched. They want to be recognized by the state as well.

Your explanation couldn't be anymore Marxist. It's textbook historical materialism.
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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

Is that why heterosexual couples get married too?

-Misanthropic-

Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.

Men earn more than women so two men together and it's all $$$$

Also no kids usually and gays are ballin' with the cash.

Maybe I should be gay then.
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[QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

[QUOTE="xscrapzx"] Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.xscrapzx

So love and creating a family has nothing to do with it. That's nice to know.

With all do respect, you can't create a natural family with a gay couple. At least between the two of them and by no means am I saying that gay marriage is wrong or am I against it because at the end of the day whatever which way is decided. I'm still going to have to wake up in the morning and go to work to pay my bills. I could care less to be honest, just stating that some want the benefits of marriage. If you think none of them don't they you are being very naive.

Benefits of marriage? It seems more of a financial gamble to enter into one these days. With a divorce rate lingering in the high 50's and the legal/financial headaches involved, I don't think a majority of people entering into marriage are doing so for financial benefits.
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#288 -Misanthropic-
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Maybe I should be gay then. -Sun_Tzu-

Is your family's bank account not swollen enough? e5051254.gif

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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] I reject this marxist interpretation. -Sun_Tzu-
I don't think there is anything marxist about it at all. Its very simple, a gay couple lives with eachother, they both pay bills and taxes and want their cut as well. I don't think its that far fetched. They want to be recognized by the state as well.

Your explanation couldn't be anymore Marxist. It's textbook historical materialism.

So even if it is, how does that dispute the fact that there are some gay couples out there that are happy just being couples, would plan on getting married if it was legal or recognized by the state, for the benenfits that are provided from it?
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[QUOTE="Maniacc1"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="jimkabrhel"]

So love and creating a family has nothing to do with it. That's nice to know.

With all do respect, you can't create a natural family with a gay couple. At least between the two of them and by no means am I saying that gay marriage is wrong or am I against it because at the end of the day whatever which way is decided. I'm still going to have to wake up in the morning and go to work to pay my bills. I could care less to be honest, just stating that some want the benefits of marriage. If you think none of them don't they you are being very naive.

Benefits of marriage? It seems more of a financial gamble to enter into one these days. With a divorce rate lingering in the high 50's and the legal/financial headaches involved, I don't think a majority of people entering into marriage are doing so for financial benefits.

Just because devorce rates are up does not mean people are not going to get married because of it or say, "You know its too much of a gamble for me as devorce is expensive." People are in it for the now, not what it could be.
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#291 -Sun_Tzu-
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"] I don't think there is anything marxist about it at all. Its very simple, a gay couple lives with eachother, they both pay bills and taxes and want their cut as well. I don't think its that far fetched. They want to be recognized by the state as well. xscrapzx
Your explanation couldn't be anymore Marxist. It's textbook historical materialism.

So even if it is, how does that dispute the fact that there are some gay couples out there that are happy just being couples, would plan on getting married if it was legal or recognized by the state, for the benenfits that are provided from it?

The problem is that you are trying to pass off the economic benefits of marriage as the sole reason for why every gay person in the country wants to get married.
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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"] Most likely. Combinding two families together creates a bigger pot. I would say that it is more along the lines of tradition more than anything though.xscrapzx

So love and creating a family has nothing to do with it. That's nice to know.

With all do respect, you can't create a natural family with a gay couple. At least between the two of them and by no means am I saying that gay marriage is wrong or am I against it because at the end of the day whatever which way is decided. I'm still going to have to wake up in the morning and go to work to pay my bills. I could care less to be honest, just stating that some want the benefits of marriage. If you think none of them don't they you are being very naive.

Considering the divorce rate, and how badly some hetersexual couple treat their kids, I support any couple who wishes to start a loving home, either through surrogacy, insemination or adoption (for gay/lesbian couples couples). I know that some couples enter into marriage for the money, but it's so much easier and acceptable to be financially independent these days (especially for women), that marriage isn't THAT much better, money wise.

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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"] With all do respect, you can't create a natural family with a gay couple.

lol
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You do come across as rather self righteous. You're not too over the top, but you still seem to act like you know what god wants.toast_burner
He lives in an extreme state of denial. It is very evident in his posts. The way in which he words particular sentences just gives it away (as I've already pointed out in this thread). There is no truly selfless person, because it is impossible for a human being to care that much about that many people. It just isn't biologically possible for us to care beyond our "family unit" (which includes extended family, friends and local community). We have a limited number of emotional resources, and by attempting to be "selfless" we spread them far too thin, making them useless to everyone. Wasting time on people who couldn't care less and those that don't need our help. Prayer being the absolute biggest waste of course... and whenever I get the "I'll pray for you" I just want to respond "You may as well better spend your time on something for you, because it's doing nothing for me". Though, ironically, I don't think I've ever got that from mindstorm. Is it the Calvinism? *shrugs*
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#295 Maniacc1
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[QUOTE="Maniacc1"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"] With all do respect, you can't create a natural family with a gay couple. At least between the two of them and by no means am I saying that gay marriage is wrong or am I against it because at the end of the day whatever which way is decided. I'm still going to have to wake up in the morning and go to work to pay my bills. I could care less to be honest, just stating that some want the benefits of marriage. If you think none of them don't they you are being very naive.xscrapzx
Benefits of marriage? It seems more of a financial gamble to enter into one these days. With a divorce rate lingering in the high 50's and the legal/financial headaches involved, I don't think a majority of people entering into marriage are doing so for financial benefits.

Just because devorce rates are up does not mean people are not going to get married because of it or say, "You know its too much of a gamble for me as devorce is expensive." People are in it for the now, not what it could be.

No, but it is leading to a trend of couples thinking twice about marriage in the first place. I'm not saying there aren't people who get married solely for the economic benefits, but the ones who do are stupid. I'm not even sure what the point of this is. Are you saying because gay couples are marrying for the sake of economics, they should not be granted the right to do so?
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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"] Your explanation couldn't be anymore Marxist. It's textbook historical materialism. -Sun_Tzu-
So even if it is, how does that dispute the fact that there are some gay couples out there that are happy just being couples, would plan on getting married if it was legal or recognized by the state, for the benenfits that are provided from it?

The problem is that you are trying to pass off the economic benefits of marriage as the sole reason for why every gay person in the country wants to get married.

No I did not say every gay couple, and maybe I should have been more specific than coming off as if I were generalizing. But I would not be surprised if there are several out there hoping that it becomes recognized so that they do get the benefits.
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[QUOTE="toast_burner"]You do come across as rather self righteous. You're not too over the top, but you still seem to act like you know what god wants.Zeviander
He lives in an extreme state of denial. It is very evident in his posts. The way in which he words particular sentences just gives it away (as I've already pointed out in this thread). There is no truly selfless person, because it is impossible for a human being to care that much about that many people. It just isn't biologically possible for us to care beyond our "family unit" (which includes extended family, friends and local community). We have a limited number of emotional resources, and by attempting to be "selfless" we spread them far too thin, making them useless to everyone. Wasting time on people who couldn't care less and those that don't need our help. Prayer being the absolute biggest waste of course... and whenever I get the "I'll pray for you" I just want to respond "You may as well better spend your time on something for you, because it's doing nothing for me". Though, ironically, I don't think I've ever got that from mindstorm. Is it the Calvinism? *shrugs*

As a note, the nature of my prayers is seeking God to equip me and give me the faith to reach outside of my comfort zone to better help others myself. As such, prayer causes me to action and is not simply an excuse for inaction. And with the comment that "there is no truly selfless person" I agree with this statement. However, every time I speak such things people rebuke me for thinking lowly of humanity. No, I simply believe we are an imperfect people in need of a perfect savior.
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[QUOTE="xscrapzx"][QUOTE="Maniacc1"] Benefits of marriage? It seems more of a financial gamble to enter into one these days. With a divorce rate lingering in the high 50's and the legal/financial headaches involved, I don't think a majority of people entering into marriage are doing so for financial benefits. Maniacc1
Just because devorce rates are up does not mean people are not going to get married because of it or say, "You know its too much of a gamble for me as devorce is expensive." People are in it for the now, not what it could be.

No, but it is leading to a trend of couples thinking twice about marriage in the first place. I'm not saying there aren't people who get married solely for the economic benefits, but the ones who do are stupid. I'm not even sure what the point of this is. Are you saying because gay couples are marrying for the sake of economics, they should not be granted the right to do so?

No not at all, I'm saying that a big reason why the government does not want to make gay marriage legal is probably because of the monies that are involved not so much the reglious aspect that people always bring up. I will say though, that there are probably a lot of gay couples out there that say, "Hey we been together for a while, I don't see us breaking up or have interest in others, I think we deserve the same rights as other couples do"
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Amazing how backwards is the mentality of some people even in the most developed nations.
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[QUOTE="-Sun_Tzu-"][QUOTE="xscrapzx"] So even if it is, how does that dispute the fact that there are some gay couples out there that are happy just being couples, would plan on getting married if it was legal or recognized by the state, for the benenfits that are provided from it?xscrapzx
The problem is that you are trying to pass off the economic benefits of marriage as the sole reason for why every gay person in the country wants to get married.

No I did not say every gay couple, and maybe I should have been more specific than coming off as if I were generalizing. But I would not be surprised if there are several out there hoping that it becomes recognized so that they do get the benefits.

And here comes the backtracking. There's a huge difference between saying that you suspect that there exists some small number of gay couples who want to marry for the benefits that it entails (benefits that are not exclusively financial; something that you don't seem to acknowledge), and that "It all has to do with money my man. The Gay people that want to get married want the benefits of it, not the true meaning of being married. Its all about money."

It's not like you mistakenly left out a qualifier in your earlier posts. What you were saying couldn't have been more clear.